Keenly Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 Let me start off by saying I am 100% over this girl. I have no desire to get back with her. I WOULD , however, derive great pleasure from crushing her hopes and dreams. A little background, this is a girl who would rather play childish mind games than communicate. For example, towards the end of our relationship, she would leave pieces of paper out with some guys name scribbled on it with the sole intention of getting a rise out of me. She not only did this, but other similar things usually by " accident. " Today I get a text almost a year after we broke up that said " I love and miss you " Now normally I would just not respond , but my ears kind of perked up a little, because the thought of shooting her down gave me a hard on. I responded with a " huh? " to which I receive a "sorry that was for some one else" We all know that's bs. You don't accidentally text some one you haven't talked to in 6 months. Anyway. There is no real point to this thread. Just wanted to share with my LS buddies.
Author Keenly Posted August 6, 2013 Author Posted August 6, 2013 How old is she? 12? On the inside, yes.
thorsten flakne Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 You know this person more than anyone else. Why would she send that text? Did she require a lot of external validation? Was she a sociopath? These 'games' must have a point that satisfies some urge in her.
Author Keenly Posted August 6, 2013 Author Posted August 6, 2013 You know this person more than anyone else. Why would she send that text? Did she require a lot of external validation? Was she a sociopath? These 'games' must have a point that satisfies some urge in her. Pretty much nailed it. She sent that text because she wanted to see if my response was anything but a begging for her back. /laugh Yes she required much more external validation than any one man could provide. Yes she exhibited certain sociopathic tendencies. It blows my mind that people like this exist, or why it took me so long to figure it out.
Echo000 Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 lol..i love how you just wrote HUH back. kinda says it all..good one. this girl sounds like a loser. "sorry that was for someone else"..wtf. what a clown. i dont get most people on this earth, especially people like this gem of an ex.
Ordinaryday Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 Pretty much nailed it. She sent that text because she wanted to see if my response was anything but a begging for her back. /laugh Yes she required much more external validation than any one man could provide. Yes she exhibited certain sociopathic tendencies. It blows my mind that people like this exist, or why it took me so long to figure it out. Dude, if you were really truly 100% over her you wouldn't be making threads like this. You may think you are 100% over her and you may want to be 100% over her but you clearly aren't. You may be 99.9 percent over her, but that 0.01% is eating at you. If you were truly over her you would have deleted the text without a second thought, and gone about your day, not even giving her the satisfaction of a "huh?" response. Truth is, a few years ago I "accidentally" texted my ex just cos I wanted to see if I could still get a reaction from her, any at all. she completely ignored the text, I can't even say with 100% certainty she saw them - maybe she changed numbers, I don't know. but if you were really over her you wouldn't be making posts like this. 1
cavalier99 Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 (edited) Dude, if you were really truly 100% over her you wouldn't be making threads like this. You may think you are 100% over her and you may want to be 100% over her but you clearly aren't. You may be 99.9 percent over her, but that 0.01% is eating at you. If you were truly over her you would have deleted the text without a second thought, and gone about your day, not even giving her the satisfaction of a "huh?" response. Truth is, a few years ago I "accidentally" texted my ex just cos I wanted to see if I could still get a reaction from her, any at all. she completely ignored the text, I can't even say with 100% certainty she saw them - maybe she changed numbers, I don't know. but if you were really over her you wouldn't be making posts like this. Hmmm no need to split hairs here. I think hes pretty much over her. There is always some type of curiosity. And respondidng back after you are esentially recovered can sometimes put the final nail in the coffin to the BU and even the NC concept. Im over my ex and i still post here sometimes. I just dont think responding to her at the point he is at is necesarily a sign of weakness. Anyway just my thoughts. good to see your doing well Keenly! I think the last thing you need to get over is the desire to see that she explodes. Jajaja Cav Edited August 6, 2013 by cavalier99
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