violetsareviolet Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 (edited) hello all..hope everyone is having a great monday : ) a casual quandary centered on traveling with your special someone. i'll keep this brief: a very rare second chance with a romance graced its way back into my life a bit over a month ago. things have been very casual, fun and progressively gaining momentum into something we both see as very special. we have already shared that neither of us were dating outside, nor did we want to...and both really enjoy spending time together. I literally haven't been on a vacation out of the country since college back in 2002, and have managed to squirrel away enough cabbage and time for 1.5 weeks or so to visit a friend in germany recently...so stoked ! anyway, we had lunch together yesterday and the conversation of travel came up...we talked about our top 5 trips from past or bucket list locations for the future....just in passing, there was no hinting of anyone asking anyone, anywhere ; ) today, I spent a bit of time impulsively daydreaming on the couch about asking her along since she coincidentally and desperately wants to visit the country next door to germany...and I have enough credit card points to comp her plane ticket. occupancy in rooms isnt not greatly affected with a 2nd person either...so this would be a negligible financial burden or guilt that she might owe me somehow. the obvious is that it would fast-track things, but I really believe we're both ready this time since we have let our friendship and connection grow alongside of the passion. what do you all think? how soon were you off on the lamb with your significant one Edited August 5, 2013 by violetsareviolet
Author violetsareviolet Posted August 5, 2013 Author Posted August 5, 2013 hey maverick, sounds good to me. I left out that she had no intention to travel there anytime soon due to work, so this would most definitely be a surprise. we just happen to have the same 1.5 week chunk of time free...so the coincidence seems ripe enough
Author violetsareviolet Posted August 5, 2013 Author Posted August 5, 2013 "let's try Bakersfield instead" would be a subtle hint ; ) thanks again, cheers
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