tik003 Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 Hi Everyone, Due to begging on my part, my girlfriend has decided to give a break on the relationship instead of breakup (could be anywhere from 2 weeks to 6 weeks) The core of the issue, without fluffing it is I was needy and wanted more of her attention and time because I was a love taker. Now I have been working on myself to be happy and secure for who I am regardless if I am in a relationship or not by hanging out with friends, focusing on work and taking more time with family. But I don't know if it is too late to reconcile with her. If she decides not to go through this relationship, I understand that by not addressing my own issues, I lost a chance at a one time love even if I have started to change. What are some good suggestions to show her that I can be a strong man that will make her feel safe without being suffocated in a relationship? PS- There are other beautiful women out there in the world and I know that I can fall in love with them and forget about her (Sex is a given and is not hard either). However, I do love this girl at an altruistic level and the connection I had with her is something I want to rekindle.
Misfortune Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 Hi Everyone, Due to begging on my part, my girlfriend has decided to give a break on the relationship instead of breakup (could be anywhere from 2 weeks to 6 weeks) The core of the issue, without fluffing it is I was needy and wanted more of her attention and time because I was a love taker. Now I have been working on myself to be happy and secure for who I am regardless if I am in a relationship or not by hanging out with friends, focusing on work and taking more time with family. But I don't know if it is too late to reconcile with her. If she decides not to go through this relationship, I understand that by not addressing my own issues, I lost a chance at a one time love even if I have started to change. What are some good suggestions to show her that I can be a strong man that will make her feel safe without being suffocated in a relationship? PS- There are other beautiful women out there in the world and I know that I can fall in love with them and forget about her (Sex is a given and is not hard either). However, I do love this girl at an altruistic level and the connection I had with her is something I want to rekindle. Just keep doing what you're doing, give her her space or(sig) and let her come to you.
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