gabie1122 Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 I started dating this guy, lets called him Fred, last fall in college. Things have been pretty great ever since. As it is summer, I have moved home and he lives there. He has never been much of a texter so I hear from him maybe five or six messages a day. Lately, I haven't been feeling fairly disconnected you him. Like I have gotten over the minimal communication bothering me and I don't find myself missing him all that much. I haven't to admit occasionally even wanting to flirt with guys I come across. Is this a sign that I don't care that much for Fred and I am really only with him because I have just become comfortable or am I just having a hard time with the distance? I am moving back next week, but I don't want to continue the relationship there either if I am just wasting my time.
CherryT Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 Sounds like you just need a push to get out of the relationship. You don't really seem invested in it and neither is he (with the minimal communication) and you're OK with that. When 2 people REALLY care about each other and are in a LDR, the feelings usually get worse. You miss them, sometimes you dwell, then you get back up, and then you go through phases of missing them again. And working through those emotions of being apart together, usually sustains a LDR. You're in college, you want to flirt with other guys, you don't really miss him. I think you're not that interested in it anymore. 1
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