may_girl Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 I am well on my way to getting over him. I last text messaged him 82 days ago, asking if he was ready to talk and at least be civil with one another. We got on so well whilst we were together. No surprises - he didn't reply. That was the time I realized NC was the only way. And here I am 82 days later, feeling stronger than I have ever felt. Of course I have had my weak moments and of course I think about him, but now I see a future without him in it and the world is looking brighter being alone. I know the pain, I know the daily agonizing we are given no choice but to go through post-breakup. But there is an end, I am well and truly seeing the light and please don't give in to contacting, no matter the circumstance. You will shame yourself and have regret, an extra emotion which I am sure you know you don't need to deal with. Keep strong, LSers - you will reach this point too. Just have faith in yourself and stay strong. May Girl 2
Author may_girl Posted August 5, 2013 Author Posted August 5, 2013 Thanks guys! I'm aware that there is still a tie to him, considering I am still counting the NC days. Hopefully soon I will be able to stop that. You can all do the same Once you get to day 60, it gets a lot more steady and easy. My next aim is day 100! 1
templeofmax Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 WHOA!!! congrats!!! Its been 6 weeks for me, but I really love her. She ignored everything before that. Still has our pics on her FB and we did love each other (if not, we were masochists cause we did have a large amount of stupid fights). Its been 3.5 months post breakup, but my psychologist, who knows her, told me that if I go 90 days, she could contact her on my behalf so I don't suffer the rejection if that is the case.
Jord11 Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 Congrats! I'm on day 160 something I stopped counting, keep it going
newmoon Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 super great!! by this point you're well on the way to recovery, good for you!
Author may_girl Posted August 8, 2013 Author Posted August 8, 2013 85 days now - feeling even better. Well done to everyone who is maintaining NC. Once you get to a certain point, I think 40 days, you don't want to break it just out of principle and because you've worked so hard to reach that point. Please keep going everyone! We need to remember if they wanted to speak to us they would reach out, not give us pathetic breadcrumbs or ignore us! 1
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