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I met this guy online about a month ago, and we've been on 3 dates. Each time we've gone out, it's been great. We seem to have a lot in common and have great conversations. Being kind of a shy person, I find it very easy to talk with him and completely relax.

 

Even though I've been in a relationship before and have dated quite a bit, I still feel inexperienced with dating. In the past, things have gone way too fast or too slow and have eventually fizzled out. I don't feel like I know what a natural progression should be when it comes to dating. One guy I dated, we saw each other almost every day for 2 months straight. Another guy, once every two weeks. I want to find a happy medium but I'm not sure what is right.

 

I tend to over analyze everything and that is another one of my faults.

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What feels right for you? That's what matters. Trust your feelings and do what will bring you the most happiness.

 

You're comfortable and seem happy with what you have going with this guy. Just do what feels right and don't overthink your way out of a relationship.

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Thanks for your insight. Your absolutely right when saying don't over think yourself out of a relationship. I tend to do that a lot.

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