ofdaffodils Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 Hi everybody, This is probably going to sound really neurotic but I'm curious. I had a really amazing first date with a guy on Saturday night. We talked for hours and I ended up sleeping with him (which I think maybe now I regret? Not sure). He said a bunch of stuff that alluded to seeing me in the future and he directly said he wants to see me again. He also wanted me to sleep over but I had to be up really early so I went home. I texted him around lunchtime yesterday just to say thanks for having me over and I didn't hear back. I don't think he's like obligated to text me but since I said something I kind of thought he'd respond to it...so now I don't know what to think. Should I forget about this one? Or am I acting like a crazy person?
Jadedbyluv Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 I hate to say it but you slept with him he got what he wanted. You probably won't hear from him.
ses Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 Ditto. Some guys won't judge you for sleeping with them on the first date; others will view you as an easy lay and discard you after they get what they want. Focus on the intentions of the guy, and try to withhold sex for a longer period of time. He won't bail on you if he's genuinely interested. Forget about this one, and find someone who deserves you. 1
Author ofdaffodils Posted August 5, 2013 Author Posted August 5, 2013 He actually mentioned before I went over to his place that he has terrible reception in his apartment and that the only reason he could text me was that he had imessage...so I suppose there's a very slim chance it didn't go through. But I think I'm just going to forget about him and if he shows back up I'll reevaluate. It just sucks because we talked a LOT before we met and I was pretty excited about him. He also told me that he thought that I wasn't interested in him because I didn't message him that much once we stopped talking on okcupid and exchanged other contact info (I was waiting for him to message me), and he said he was kind of disappointed because he "knew he liked me." Sigh.
veggirl Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 (edited) Hold up. Was your first date AT his apartment? If so then yes he only wanted sex. Why would you go to his apt for a first date? Esp the whole date! Also any guy lookoing for a relationship knows its his job to make first contact agter first sexing! Edited August 5, 2013 by veggirl
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