irc333 Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 I have a female friend from way back, apparently she's been "Friends" with these guys for a while, but hangs out with them becuase she has nothing else better to do or she gets bored. SHe recently had a regret of bringing a male friend to the beach and he was an overweight older guy with a big gut, and decided to wear his speedo (probably to turn her on) He also started taking pictures of her legs with his camera. The guy is a real creep, but he's trying to make intimate moves while she's throwing up a little in her mouth. Other than this guy, in general, she'd tell guys she'd go out "as friends" with them, but they'd be like "Suuuuure, I can go out as a friend with you" Then make some kind of romantic mood during or at the end of their date. Do you think this a bad move on their part or do you think she should put a stop to this?
sillyanswer Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 Do you think this a bad move on their part or do you think she should put a stop to this? Perhaps she should be less naive about the motives of guys asking her out. 2
grkBoy Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 Perhaps she should be less naive about the motives of guys asking her out. Exactly...and I wish women would stop assuming guys are asking them out just to be "best buds".
Babolat Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 I have been going out with some of my female friends, clearing telling them up front "just friends, I do not want to date". And I have found THEY are trying to push things to another level. In one case reaching over to kiss me, in another case one is starting to ask me relationship questions, about my past, etc. Sound slike she is picking the wrong friends, and if they are acting inappropriate she needs to cut them lose.
Maleficent Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 I have a female friend from way back, apparently she's been "Friends" with these guys for a while, but hangs out with them becuase she has nothing else better to do or she gets bored. SHe recently had a regret of bringing a male friend to the beach and he was an overweight older guy with a big gut, and decided to wear his speedo (probably to turn her on) He also started taking pictures of her legs with his camera. The guy is a real creep, but he's trying to make intimate moves while she's throwing up a little in her mouth. Other than this guy, in general, she'd tell guys she'd go out "as friends" with them, but they'd be like "Suuuuure, I can go out as a friend with you" Then make some kind of romantic mood during or at the end of their date. Do you think this a bad move on their part or do you think she should put a stop to this? I really can't help but lmao on this one (bold) 1
Star Gazer Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 Are you trying to date this woman? Why do you care what she does? 1
Treasa Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 I have a female friend from way back, apparently she's been "Friends" with these guys for a while, but hangs out with them becuase she has nothing else better to do or she gets bored. SHe recently had a regret of bringing a male friend to the beach and he was an overweight older guy with a big gut, and decided to wear his speedo (probably to turn her on) He also started taking pictures of her legs with his camera. The guy is a real creep, but he's trying to make intimate moves while she's throwing up a little in her mouth. Other than this guy, in general, she'd tell guys she'd go out "as friends" with them, but they'd be like "Suuuuure, I can go out as a friend with you" Then make some kind of romantic mood during or at the end of their date. Do you think this a bad move on their part or do you think she should put a stop to this? Maybe she should find other ways to get over her boredom or pick up some new hobbies. Problem solved. 1
DannyMason Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 Why's everyone hating on the chick? If she's up front about just wanting to be friends with these guys and they're trying to push their luck anyway, the blame's all on them. 1
Treasa Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 (edited) Why's everyone hating on the chick? If she's up front about just wanting to be friends with these guys and they're trying to push their luck anyway, the blame's all on them. I'm not hating on her. But she can't change how the guys act, so she should find other people to hang out with instead if she doesn't like it. Edited August 5, 2013 by Treasa 1
New User Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 I have a female friend from way back, apparently she's been "Friends" with these guys for a while, but hangs out with them becuase she has nothing else better to do or she gets bored. SHe recently had a regret of bringing a male friend to the beach and he was an overweight older guy with a big gut, and decided to wear his speedo (probably to turn her on) He also started taking pictures of her legs with his camera. The guy is a real creep, but he's trying to make intimate moves while she's throwing up a little in her mouth. Other than this guy, in general, she'd tell guys she'd go out "as friends" with them, but they'd be like "Suuuuure, I can go out as a friend with you" Then make some kind of romantic mood during or at the end of their date. Do you think this a bad move on their part or do you think she should put a stop to this? If this is an all the time thing- then the problem is on her end. Most likely she's sending mixed messages, possibly intentionally. I have an extremely difficult time believing she naively keeps befriending guys only to have them indicate- to her great shock- that they desire more. Oh, and who's paying for all these friendly dates? (cue indignant responses)
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