femaletroubles Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 So saw this girl for a few weeks, I met her parents this weekend at her beach house. They fed me and let me stay there. Her mother told her I was perfect for her apparently etc (they loved me). We had a good time, walked on the beach holding hands, watched the sunset, shopping she'd kiss me randomly when no one was around. Anyways, she decided to go back to her ex a few days after...some lame excuse about not being able to come over I'm planning to let it go. Does anyone think the thank you card to the parents for feeding and letting me stay at their beach house is a good idea? No, i don't want to get back with that train wreck of a girl anymore
JDPT Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 No need for it, let things be. Clearly this girl has no clue what she wants in life. Move along there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Philosoraptor Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 No don't send anything. I'm sure you showed your appreciation while there.
It-is-what-it-is. Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 So saw this girl for a few weeks, I met her parents this weekend at her beach house. They fed me and let me stay there. Her mother told her I was perfect for her apparently etc (they loved me). We had a good time, walked on the beach holding hands, watched the sunset, shopping she'd kiss me randomly when no one was around. Anyways, she decided to go back to her ex a few days after...some lame excuse about not being able to come over I'm planning to let it go. Does anyone think the thank you card to the parents for feeding and letting me stay at their beach house is a good idea? No, i don't want to get back with that train wreck of a girl anymore Oh I am going to be the lone "send the thank you"??? The thank you note is to the parents for their hospitality. Their daughters crappy behavior does not negate their hospitality. A simple thank you, I had a lovely time, addressed to them, is awesome. And such nice manners. What a good boy. How old are you? I have a single daughter who is not a psycho.... 1
unexpectedlyhere Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 I also would go for the Thank you note if you had a really brilliant time. I would question whether to do it after just one visit, but that's not about you being together or broken up, it's about thank you cards in general! I am definitely planning on contacting my ex's parents after 6.5 yrs of being nice to me and holidays together and great memories. I'm just waiting for the right time / frame of mind to do this.
Legatus Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 It's very polite and I like the idea of the card. Would certainly do the same, especially when they liked you and showed their hospitality. Nothing wrong with it!
Misfortune Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 If they treated you well, played no part in you being betrayed(as far as you know), then there's no reason not to thank them IMO
Author femaletroubles Posted August 6, 2013 Author Posted August 6, 2013 Oh I am going to be the lone "send the thank you"??? The thank you note is to the parents for their hospitality. Their daughters crappy behavior does not negate their hospitality. A simple thank you, I had a lovely time, addressed to them, is awesome. And such nice manners. What a good boy. How old are you? I have a single daughter who is not a psycho.... I'm 27 and a doctor, i'd honestly love to meet a sweet girl. I'm ready to get married
Author femaletroubles Posted August 6, 2013 Author Posted August 6, 2013 ok thanks all, I like the idea of sending a thank you card to her parents (mom was adorable) Thanks!
unexpectedlyhere Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 Oi! What about the single girls already on the site? 1
Knoxpwns Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 I would do it. In fact, I just sent a message to my ex-gf of 6 years mother last night. I just thanked them for their hospitality, let them know I enjoyed my time with her family, and wished them the best in the future. I don't think they really know the dirty details of how she cheated on me and left me for a guy online, but maybe they will find out in the future. Not really my place, It's not my problem anymore. I think it's both respectful and shows a lot of humility to thank them.
Author femaletroubles Posted August 7, 2013 Author Posted August 7, 2013 Oi! What about the single girls already on the site? any chance you're in the North east I sent it, just thanked her mother and father for their generosity, told them they had a wonderful family and that it was a pleasure meeting them i figure i would appreciate it if i invited someone into my home. so pay it forward Have a date lined up with an amazing girl i met for this Friday!! *excited*
reddragon588 Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 If it was just this weekend then yes I can see you sending a thank you card. That's very polite and something that not a lot of people do anymore, many times even if they are in a relationship. As long as you don't make it awkward and mention the breakup and stick to thank you, you were very generous and I enjoyed meeting you, I think it's an awesome thing to do.
unexpectedlyhere Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 any chance you're in the North east Ex's family is from the North East! But... it depends what country you mean Have a date lined up with an amazing girl i met for this Friday!! *excited* Well then, this sounds even better Enjoy!
Knoxpwns Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 Ex's family is from the North East! But... it depends what country you mean how about USA
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