johndoes Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 My ex of seven months thinks that I cheated on her because she found Bobbi pins in my room. Here's the situation...we broke up and the next day she came over to the house to pick her stuff up when I wasn't home and found the pins in my bedroom. Now I know it looks bad but they were from my sister in law when she stayed at my house for work while I was out of town for two weeks. Now here is the bad thing at least for me because people are starting to talk about everything and we have a ton of mutual friends. I mean her friends are my best friends and vice versa and I hate how I have a bad rep now. I know I shouldn't care about what they think but we all have been friends for years. We broke up cause we couldn't get along and she told me that night that she is still in love with her ex from seven years ago and she would do anything for him. I also found out that she was texting him before and during while we were dating. I just don't know what to do. I need advice.
fancy feast Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 (edited) My ex of seven months thinks that I cheated on her because she found Bobbi pins in my room. Here's the situation...we broke up and the next day she came over to the house to pick her stuff up when I wasn't home and found the pins in my bedroom. Now I know it looks bad but they were from my sister in law when she stayed at my house for work while I was out of town for two weeks. Now here is the bad thing at least for me because people are starting to talk about everything and we have a ton of mutual friends. I mean her friends are my best friends and vice versa and I hate how I have a bad rep now. I know I shouldn't care about what they think but we all have been friends for years. We broke up cause we couldn't get along and she told me that night that she is still in love with her ex from seven years ago and she would do anything for him. I also found out that she was texting him before and during while we were dating. I just don't know what to do. I need advice. Pretty much explains everything. Deflect that blame. Just tell your friends the truth (about the bobbi pins). Not much more you can do. You have a clear conscience, that'll show in your demeanor towards your friends. Edited August 5, 2013 by fancy feast clean, clear, what's the difference
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