VanCal Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 Why Maintaining Contact With Your Ex Is Crucial | | Ask Love Doctor Yangki Christine Akiteng I was reading this article saying it would be better to keep in contact with them, to create a stronger bond. i mean only if your ex wants to still have contact with you and still has feelings for you (situation being they are just unsure) most people would say just leave them be, but if you could maintain composure and keep in the 'now' like start over from scratch could it work? at this moment im not an emotional wreck, never was, never pleaded and begged, could always talk to her normally and confident, i realized i just misjudged the situation and was overly romantic. didn't take it slow enough. I know all situations are different but has anyone kept in contact with their ex that lead to a reconciliation? YES i know most advice will be moving on, my situation was my ex thought i liked her too much and pushed (only coz i thought she felt the same, i know that was my mistake) so i want to try fix that and show her i can be friends first before anything because i know she still has feelings for me and is not seeing anyone. even if friend zone is a risk i dont think i would mind coz i would want to have her as a friend in my life.
Tropi_cali510 Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 Try no contact bro, cause if she really does like you, she realize she misses you and shell contact you, just pretend your good without her, and if she isn't the 1 for you I well, move on, you still got a life to live to the fullest and don't waste a day on her if shes not willing to do the same
Simon Phoenix Posted August 5, 2013 Posted August 5, 2013 No contact is essential in pretty much all situations. For reconciliations, it's best to go NC for a while to get your emotions under control and make sure you aren't making a clingy, emotional ass of yourself. It also allows your ex to relax and come down a bit. Then once you are ready to talk to him/her without expectations and from a calm state of mind, then maybe resume contact. Though it might be better to just move forward. So yeah, I disagree with her in the immediate aftermath. After a few months or so, then it becomes relevant maybe.
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