Author drdre Posted August 8, 2013 Author Posted August 8, 2013 This is all excellentissimo! Keep going, and keep communicating - what happened with the staying over being considered and then postponed to later is the type of stuff you need to keep doing, to make sure you stay on the same page. You made lots of plans already but at the same time don't be upset if they don't all happen. You both sound really happy and sure of what you're doing but even either of you has small doubts every now and then for the first few weeks, especially about how slow or fast things are going, that's ok too. Keep talking! Btw, I want to know: did my little "programme" from a few posts back make sense? Thank you! I'm going to try my hardest to communicate as much as I can. Yes, it totally did! I liked it! Haha
Myonenonly Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Aaahhh I see! I totally get it now. I guess after such a long update post I left a few things out. I'm 99.9% sure we are together now. We said things like "Im glad we were able to work things out", We made plans for me to fly to her hometown in a few weeks to meet her family, going out of the country in October (she was already going on both of those trips and she asked me to come with her), I have family coming in town next week and she is going to meet them. She also texted me yesterday after we met saying "I'm really excited" and later that all the girls at her office were "ecstatic" after she told them how our lunch went. While I didn't say "So, are we like, boyfrann/gurlfrann now? [insert bimbo voice here]", if somehow we are NOT, I'd have to chalk it up to mental insanity on her part. I will say that I was going to come over to her house last night since we both didn't have out kids and she did say she'd rather till next week (next kid free day) to give us time to work back up to picking up where we left off. I thought that was reasonable and I didn't have a problem with that at all. She still called me last night and we talked for almost an hour just catching up like we used to. I think this is still good advice though now that I get it. I'm just going to take things as they come instead of jumping to "I love you" every time I get off the phone. I'm very happy though and I think only good things are ahead of us right now. I feel confident we are both "in this" and on the same page now. Here is hoping I never have to give an update about how I was wrong! Cheers! Super happy for you! Congrats. ! 1
Kizza Posted August 14, 2013 Posted August 14, 2013 yay happy days! I wish you the best. I hope to have a happy story one day soon and don't forget LS for any questions big or small along the way throughout the relationship, getting a foot in the door is one thing but claiming a place on the throne for keeps takes hard work and is a totally other thing all together
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