walkthisway Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 I hung out with me ex gf Friday for what ended up being a solid 7 hours. She went as far as asking me if I'd spend he evening going out to an event that evening that I turned down. Issue is she's seeing someone else but talks it down - she doesn't consider him a bf, just having fun. I've been doing the same also - just no one person in particular. The whole day and conversation went real well. I'm out of the needy broken hearted place - it feels like I have a crush on a friend of mine. It was the best day's conversation I think we've ever had. Now it's Sunday and I wanna ask her if she wants to hang out. I don't know if there's interest from the other side - my gut tells me she might see that there can be something kicked up in time. I don't know. We've both changed immensely. In the past I was a different person altogether (have changed my life/lifestyle) and she's communicating like she hasn't ever before. I had a feeling things would change like this and I see a whole new friendship possible but I have way too big a crush on her. What next? I wrote her off three days ago and ended up seeing her and she asked to hang and spend the day with me - altho she has a "somebody" in her life. Maybe this is just a rant. I've been doing that lately - only uncovering and having new info as experiences come to light lately.
StrongLass Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 Since you're still "crushing" on her I'd tone everything down. Feeling anything other than a comfortable/friendly indifference toward her leaves you WAY too vulnerable and open for mindf*ckery on her end of things.
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