alicia24 Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 My boyfriend who is absolutely fantastic got a call from his kids mom. She was away on vacation and called to tell him that she was back. He asked how her trip was and she started telling him about this guy that she met and how they went in the hot tub together and spent time on the beach together etc. He got really pissed and hung up on her. He said that he was not jelous, just angry that she would do this because he doesnt tell her any of our personal stuff. Is that a normal reaction to this situation? Would this bother any of you? Would you react the same?
bluechocolate Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 Maybe she's trying to make him jealous & he doesn't want to play her silly game. If he knows her conversation is serving another purpose than just idle chit-chat maybe he got mad because she's acting so silly rather than because he's jealous.
tattoomytoe Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 what is the question? do we think he is over reacting? do we think he is jealous? do we think the ex is weird?
flavius Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 She was obviously trying to piss him off. She will always have a handle on him in a way, but that doesn't mean he still carrying a torch for her. Just remember she will come with the deal, so learn to deal with it or deal yourself out. Good luck!
She's Come Undone Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 He shouldn't have asked, simple as that. I truly don't care to know anything concerning my ex-bf and his wife, so I don't ask. And no, it's not being rude, he's not required to be social with his ex.
Author alicia24 Posted November 1, 2004 Author Posted November 1, 2004 i wasnt sure if him being so angry was a normal reaction. and why would she tell him these things
Author alicia24 Posted November 1, 2004 Author Posted November 1, 2004 they have child so they need to be a little social
tattoomytoe Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 maybe you should clarify with your BF what they talk about in general, maybe they talk sex-lives back and forth and he got pissed and jealous when she told him the details....maybe she knows your details?
Bubbles Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 Sounds to me like he was just being courtious asking her how her vacation was and she took it the extra step. That was really not nice of her to do that. All his ex wanted to do was put "salt in the wound". Weather you are in love with your ex or not........if you are any kid of decent human being you do not discuss your personal life with an ex. It's just a rule that all of us Good Ex's follow. If I wanted to be a bitch I would tell my ex all about my dates with other men.....he would get mad (because he really does'nt care to know this stuff) and hang up on me too.........it's un-necessary conversation! Do not judge your ex as carrying a torch for his ex. It really does not sound like it to me. Bubbles
Bubbles Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 Jeepers.....sometimes my fingers get ahead of my brain! I meant: Do not judge your BOYFRIEND as carrying a torch for his ex. Just wanted to clarify that. Bubbles
Naive Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 Maybe it annoyed him that she was saying these things because he knew there was an ulterior motive to it. Plus, like he said, if he does not tell her about his personal relationship why should she tell him about hers.
Author alicia24 Posted November 1, 2004 Author Posted November 1, 2004 i cant stand this girl either./ she makes me want to puke.
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