Wings Of Love Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 Today would have marked 13 months together. It's so hard, this time last month was our one year anniversary and at this time we would have been on our way to the restaurant he had booked for us, shortly followed by a film at the cinema, because that's what we did on our very first date. It was just the perfect evening. And then he left me 8 days later. I don't understand him. I'm just hurting and confused. I wish this day was over.
JDPT Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 The replaying and encouraging of thoughts will only leave you stuck in time. Don't focus on what occurred in the past, you gave a very descriptive scenario of what occurred months ago and if you continue you will forever live in that moment. You need to start your recovery process, move on with your life, know that you are single and free to make wise and healthy decisions for yourself. Imagine the possibilities the future may bring as uncertain as everything feels right this moment. Move forward with your life, I understand is painful and we all have weak moments but it's up to us to get through those weak moments and know that we will come out much stronger out of all this.
Author Wings Of Love Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 It was only a month ago, so it's hard not to think about happier times with the man I still love. But that's why I'm here, so I can talk without feeling the need to contact him. I'll be back to normal - or as normal as I can be right now - tomorrow. I had work today so it really didn't hit me until I finished what today was. Just trying to keep busy now to stop myself thinking too much. I'm my own worst enemy on days like this!
JDPT Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 We all have long roads ahead of us with so much work to do. Venting is imperative as is remaining busy. But be very in sync with your feelings and stages of your grieving process. You will have ups and downs, that's completely normal, be very strong when you have weak moments and feel that you have the need to reach out to him. We are all here for each other.
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