henderson14 Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 I get a lot of views and good ratings in OKQ. I was wondering if that means the girls are interested, and wants me to send a message to her? Is she waiting for me to make the move? Does it mean they aren't interested if they don't send me a message?
nescafe1982 Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 My experience as a woman on OKC tells me that women who "like" your profile and give you high ratings are expressing their interest. When I was on that site I got so many emails (mostly not date-material but still dozens a week) that i typically did not send the first email to a man. Men are so much more likely to email first that unless your profile is REALLY compelling, you will have to make the first message to a woman rather than wait for her to come to you. But when I liked a guy, thought he was cute, etc, I would give him a high rating. If he responded by messaging me, then game on. So if I were in your shoes I would contact those ladies who give you good ratings... they are interested!
WayToRomance Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 Hi henderson14 nescafe1982 is right. If a girl visits your page, it doesn't necessarily mean that she is interested in you. However, if she rates or likes your profile or pictures, there's a good chance that she is interested in you to some degree. The ball would be in your court now as she has expressed her interest in this way. If you message her now she messages back, it's a good indicator that she is interested in you.
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