tme0 Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 An example was this morning, he insisted on making us breakfast. Thoughtful, I know. However, he was scratching and rubbing his privates earlier and right up until he started cooking. Didn't wash his hands. This really bothers me. Sometimes he'll scratch and rub then touch go to touch my face and I back away a little and he's like What? I know maybe it shouldn't bother me, because I put it in my mouth anyways....but it does. And if you read my last post, he doesn't like that I don't spit because it makes him feel like i think hes nasty, so im afraid he'll think the same of this...
jennifersmith Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 An example was this morning, he insisted on making us breakfast. Thoughtful, I know. However, he was scratching and rubbing his privates earlier and right up until he started cooking. Didn't wash his hands. This really bothers me. Sometimes he'll scratch and rub then touch go to touch my face and I back away a little and he's like What? I know maybe it shouldn't bother me, because I put it in my mouth anyways....but it does. And if you read my last post, he doesn't like that I don't spit because it makes him feel like i think hes nasty, so im afraid he'll think the same of this... Sorry. This is just plain gross. Not sure why he thinks that's okay to begin with.
bubbaganoosh Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 There's away to put a stop to it. Tell him again but in a more forceful way. Like this. "HEY. I LOVE YOU AND YEAH I GO DOWN ON YOU WHENEVER YOU LIKE. I LOVE TO PLEASE YOU BUT I DON'T WANT MY PANCAKES TASTING LIKE YOUR BALLS OK! WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF I SCRATCHED MY ASS AND HANDLED YOU BACON AND IF YOU SAY YEAH I WOULD, THEN WE GOT PROBLEMS! See? Clear as milk! Hope this helped. 1
nescafe1982 Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 I think this is one of those things that you should play straight. Tell him you want him to wash his hands before he cooks. That's it, end of story. It doesn't really bear discussion, you know? It should be a given.
Author tme0 Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 Ive used hand sanitizer then asked if he wanted any but he didn't. So I guess direct is the only way
bubbaganoosh Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 Do the bacon routine on him. Reach down in your jammies and start excavating your ass like your digging for gold and grab his food with the same hand. If that doesn't make a point nothing will. If he gets a hard on, you got a problem. 1
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