Diesel Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 Hello. As i said in the other thread that my GF has been hiding about our relationship from her parents , she doesnt want them to know about it , her parents are really strick , anyways everything was going great , on Thursday i gave her a Love Letter , she put it in a cupboard and forgot to lock it , her mother came there and she saw the letter and read it what i wrote to my GF , she got pissed at my Gf and told her TO LEAVE IT. ( ME ). Shes very strick and on the next day Friday my GF came to me and return all my letters and gifts becouse she was really sad she said that we should end our '3' years relationship becouse of her damn mom. Since that day her mother always keeps her eyes on her whatever she do. So it's impossible for me and for her , to talk or do stuff and she told me its better to end it , but I'm 101% sure she still loves me and misses me i cant be wrong i'm here crying and missin her soo much though i see her at school everyday but we dont talk becouse of the fear if anyone of you can give me an advice i would really appreciate Thank YOU - Diesel
bluetuesday Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 hi moose - diesel is 15. and i think the girl's the same age.
Moose Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 The hardest thing in any relationship has been the in-laws, or the other person's parents approval/disapproval. If either side of the parents aren't totally happy with the choices their children made, it makes their relationship almost unbearable. Saturday, we had a bon fire for our 15 year old. He invited his girlfriend and she hung all over him the whole time she was there. His mother wasn't too happy about it.....at all! She told me she was going to tell this girl to take her hands off of my son. I interjected and told her that she better not. First, I didn't want him to be embarrassed by his mom, second, if my son is happy with his choice, then fine......have at it. Since you are so young, chances are that you two won't find yourselves in a life long relationship. But let's just say for the sake of arguement that you do. Does it matter what her parents think? To you? Does it matter to her? What does this have to do with your relationship outside of your home? If she's having this problem with her parents and you, she's going to have the same problem with others as well. She needs to decide with whom she's willing to go through this problem with. Does that make sense? If after a couple years her parents warm up to you....then great....if not, then it would be time to discuss your future together and see if you both are willing to stand up to the challenge. Good Luck!
Author Diesel Posted November 2, 2004 Author Posted November 2, 2004 I'm 15 years old Moose. I just went to her today at school and told her that what does she wants ? she said what i want is what she wants. We both decided to stay together and be more careful this time.However thanks for the advice
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