psm04 Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 Some rules: 1. Avoid being in rooms alone. 2. Never forget that he chose someone else and respect that. 3. Begin to see his W in a more balanced way. She is a human being like you, a woman with hopes and dreams. If she loves him half as much as you then she probably has issues of her own. 4. If you love him, then automatically you want what's best for his children. Obviously their mum and dad know better than anyone else. So if they are together then it is a good thing. Don't get involved in messing it up. They deserve a chance at a happy and secure childhood. Lord knows life will give them major ups and downs. They will require a solid foundation upon which to build their own lives. I could go on but you get the picture. Put yourself in his shoes. Put yourself in her shoes. To love someone means to want them to be happy, safe and/or content. Love doesn't harass, or steal, or take away forcefully. It doesn't pressurize and is not self-serving. If he doesn't know how to love, then he needs to learn how to. If you have the energy and fortitude to love him the way I describe then you should. If not, don't do it. It is painful and an absolute dead-end. If he is going to be your friend, be his friend and nothing more. I love this. I wish I could like this more than once. Very inspirational post. The parts in bold especially touch me. 2
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