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I was dating this guys for about two months. The first month was fine. He was he one asking me out and planning things.

 

After that though I noticed things started to die down. Yes we had been intimate during that time.

 

I thought that we had established we were not seeing other people and O thought things were fine.

 

A week goes by I get 2 texts from him but he never asks me out so I take the initiative and ask him out. Twice. He was fine with that and we went out. All good.

 

Second week I hear nothing from him. Same with the next week. I had moved in between that time and asked him if he wanted to come over. He says no because he wants to watch Cricket. It could be an important game and he did not wanna miss anything. I thought he was blowing me off so did not reply to the text.

 

Another week goes by. Nothing. I then text him almost dumping him (we were barely communicating and seeing each other in person there was no other way to so it. He explains that I never responded to his text that is y he never got back to me. I was just a bit annoyed cause we had not seen or talked to each other all week and he still did not want to see me.

 

We sorted it out and he says was willing to give it a shot and be more upfront with things with me. He asks me out on Sunday and we end up seeing each other two days later.

 

Another week goes by. Nothing again. I send a text asking how he has been but got no response. 2 days later nothing again. I thought this is bull **** and end up ending it. No response again.

 

Just don't know what happened. Why would he keep saying he wants to see me, he wants to give it a shot. Then give me nothing? Frustrating.

 

Least I don't worry about it anymore at least!

 

Did he sound dodgy? Was I really that bad here?

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Forget this guy... Its HIS problem not yours.. Please dont spend more of your energy on this one..

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Have no idea what his deal was. All I ever wanted was just to hang out and be good to him and that was the response I got. Shrugs.

 

Even though I was the one that dumped him. It feels like he was the one that he totally disregarded first. Sigh.

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Yeah he should have told the truth. Like I mentioned before he reckons he never lies. Well that proved him wrong.

 

Just soo stupid when guys do that.

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He saw you again because he wanted some easy sex.

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Clearly you choose to ignore some rather OBVIOUS signs that this guy wasn't into you. As a guy, if I like someone I'm dating, I'm going to be in regular contact. I'm not going to go a week w/no contact nor ignore texts for day/days.

 

Move on to someone who will be into you.

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