MelodyRye Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 But I doubt he feels the same; though he did once but I didn't. The tables have flipped now and I don't know how to make this sudden feeling go away. Not sure if anyone remembers my story but I'll go to it briefly. This goes all the way to March 2011. I was a then HS Senior and we were dating for about 2 months but I was doing it as a prank (it's on my first thread). To make long story short, he overheard everything and it took me about 6 months later or so for him to talk to me again. Fast-forward: We've been friends since and he slowly began getting over that HS incidence thing but is interested in another girl. Anyway I don't know what's happening but ever since this month, my feelings changed and I think I'm falling in love with him. I'm serious this time. No joke, no prank, no dare. This is real but don't think he feels the same way. I guess I've lost my chance long ago when he felt that way towards me back then. Any suggestion. Not sure if I should tell him about it. Or would he think I'm joking again? I'm not. This is real. 1
Author MelodyRye Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 (edited) It's like the tables have flipped and at times I dream of him. Don't know what's happening to me. So basically it goes this way (let's call him Joe): 1) It was 2011 and Joes liked me back then in HS and even tells me his secrets 2) I played him with my female friends 3) He finds out and doesn't talk to me for 6 months 4) I have him back in my life as a friend 5) He likes someone else but now I'm the one has fallen for him. Finally, I see him what I didn't saw back then. But I think it's late now and I'm just a friend to him. Edited August 4, 2013 by MelodyRye 1
MrTurk Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 You don't deserve to date anyone after playing a joke like you did on him. And you haven't "fallen" for him.....you just want to "win the competition" and steal him away from the other woman that "he likes" 2
Miss_raptor Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 Just stay away from him romantically. You had your chance, you blew it. I know this sounds harsh, but even if he were to give you another chance and like you, it would be on shaky ground. 1
Author MelodyRye Posted August 5, 2013 Author Posted August 5, 2013 You don't deserve to date anyone after playing a joke like you did on him.So basically I can't date anyone else because of how I was a bit more than 2 years ago? I was a then 17 year-old HS Senior. I'm now a 20 year-old college sophomore. I have regretted it since and still do till this day. What you want me to do? Continue being single for years? And you haven't "fallen" for him.....you just want to "win the competition" and steal him away from the other woman that "he likes"Actually I wish him the best. I don't want to steal him from the girl he likes. If that makes him happy then I'm glad. I just want to get rid of these feelings I have for him now as I don't deserve him.
Author MelodyRye Posted August 5, 2013 Author Posted August 5, 2013 Just stay away from him romantically. You had your chance, you blew it. I know this sounds harsh, but even if he were to give you another chance and like you, it would be on shaky ground.He is still in my facebook but what I'm doing is I'll stop talking to him for a week or so. You're right. I had my chance back then and stupidly blew it. He's been with other girls afterwards and now he's hanging out with a different girl. I disagree with the other poster. I really don't want to meddle in their date. I'm happy he has moved on found another girl. I'm glad he doesn't hold a grudge against me.
MrTurk Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 Anyway I don't know what's happening but ever since this month, my feelings changed and I think I'm falling in love with him. How do you fall in love with someone that you arent dating?? You are not falling in love with him. As a female....you now see him as an eligible man with other women.....and that makes him attractive to you. PERIOD. If he was single and lonely....you wouldnt give a f*ck about him as a possible date.
Eddie Edirol Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 Do you think you might be suddenly into him because another girl wants him, and you thought he wasnt datable all this time? 1
Author MelodyRye Posted August 6, 2013 Author Posted August 6, 2013 How do you fall in love with someone that you arent dating??We talk sometimes online and phone. I guess so much time has passed by that I see him as more than a friend, but it's late now. I know he'll probably don't feel the same romantic feeling he once had towards me again. You are not falling in love with him. As a female....you now see him as an eligible man with other women.....and that makes him attractive to you. PERIOD.Well he was dating way before. That's not the first girl he's hanging out with and I would still have no feelings for him other than a friend I care about. It's suddenly different now.
Author MelodyRye Posted August 6, 2013 Author Posted August 6, 2013 (edited) Do you think you might be suddenly into him because another girl wants him, and you thought he wasnt datable all this time?Actually that's not the first girl he's dating. He had a previous gf last year and has been dating since. We would talk sometimes but I would still see him as a friend. So nope, when he first started dating I wasn't having those feelings yet. It's this month that's been happening. Edited August 6, 2013 by MelodyRye
It's Just Me Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 Grow up, and move on, Melody. Emotions are odd are your age, and you shouldn't give them any credence - they will change again come September.
Author MelodyRye Posted August 6, 2013 Author Posted August 6, 2013 Grow up' date=' and move on, Melody. Emotions are odd are your age, and you shouldn't give them any credence - they will change again come September.[/quote']I've changed since graduating from HS. Hopefully these feelings will go away by then and I'll once again see him as a friend.
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