ReadMyThread Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 I hate this feeling. I have absolutely nobody. No family, no friends, no nothing. Somebody help me. Here watch my music video on Youtube and tell me what you think to take my mind off things and actually make me feel like I'm something rather than feeling like absolutely nothing right now and wanting to give up.... Please.
xsanex Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 I am in a similar situation. However, I have friends and family but I want nothing to do with them. My family is quite annoying (though I love and appreciate them) and my friends are consumed with their own lives to support me. I hope you have a job and some good hobbies to help you through this time. Loneliness is the worst feeling when dealing with a breakup etc. I wish you the best
jesse93 Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 part of me feels like you're lieing about being truly lonely, and just want people to listen to your song. 2
Author ReadMyThread Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 part of me feels like you're lieing about being truly lonely, and just want people to listen to your song. I had a feeling someone would try to call me out on this. Ive been on this website for 2 years now. Check my back story. Dated a girl for 9 months. My first love, she cheated on me, left me for the guy she cheated on me with, I feel like killing myself, 3 months later we get back together, a week after that she leaves me for the same exact guy she left me for and cheated on me with the first time, 7 months NC, we get together for a 3rd time, and a month later she dumped me again. That was a month ago. Heartbroken all over again... If I wanted somebody to look at my song I would tell them and not like I said check out my song and let me know what you think TO TAKE THINGS OFF MY MIND. I talk to nobody and have no friends or family and what's their to talk about? I like when people talk about my music because I know it is the ONLY thing in good at in life. The ONLY thing. Sorry I wanted to take my mind off my ex by politely asking people to check our my music and give their opinions. Didn't know it would have been frowned apon. This website has changed. I miss the people that use to be on here when I was on here.
Author ReadMyThread Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 I am in a similar situation. However, I have friends and family but I want nothing to do with them. My family is quite annoying (though I love and appreciate them) and my friends are consumed with their own lives to support me. I hope you have a job and some good hobbies to help you through this time. Loneliness is the worst feeling when dealing with a breakup etc. I wish you the best Very true it is. And I don't see an end to it.
jesse93 Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 I had a feeling someone would try to call me out on this. Ive been on this website for 2 years now. Check my back story. Dated a girl for 9 months. My first love, she cheated on me, left me for the guy she cheated on me with, I feel like killing myself, 3 months later we get back together, a week after that she leaves me for the same exact guy she left me for and cheated on me with the first time, 7 months NC, we get together for a 3rd time, and a month later she dumped me again. That was a month ago. Heartbroken all over again... If I wanted somebody to look at my song I would tell them and not like I said check out my song and let me know what you think TO TAKE THINGS OFF MY MIND. I talk to nobody and have no friends or family and what's their to talk about? I like when people talk about my music because I know it is the ONLY thing in good at in life. The ONLY thing. Sorry I wanted to take my mind off my ex by politely asking people to check our my music and give their opinions. Didn't know it would have been frowned apon. This website has changed. I miss the people that use to be on here when I was on here. well i apologies then, the way you made the thread made it seem like you were trying to draw attention and then add the song so people would go look at it, i didn't bother looking at your other threads sorry for that. I'm as well lonely as you are, I don't have any friends i lost them all about 3 years ago and fell into a depression, i'm still lonely to this day but trying to fix it. sorry for accusing you, i know how it feels to be truly lonely though. keep your head up.
Author ReadMyThread Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 well i apologies then, the way you made the thread made it seem like you were trying to draw attention and then add the song so people would go look at it, i didn't bother looking at your other threads sorry for that. I'm as well lonely as you are, I don't have any friends i lost them all about 3 years ago and fell into a depression, i'm still lonely to this day but trying to fix it. sorry for accusing you, i know how it feels to be truly lonely though. keep your head up. Nope. I wasn't trying to draw attention. I Just came home from work to an empty house and have absolutely NOBODY to talk to or NOTHING to do. Could you tell me some of the things you are doing to try and fix it because I am too but it doesn't seem like its working. I hate this. I feel dead. I need to start my life hit don't know how.
cavalier99 Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 (edited) Yo whats man. Sorry your feeling bad. Totally sucks. She really did a number on you again. Im not on here too much but i had to respomd when i saw u post. Hang in there bro. I guess never break NC again. I was sure you were healed after so long. But it goes to show you how easily a recover can fall apart with just 1 month of getting back together. bummer. My 7 months of NC cured me completly but it is always a risk getting back in touch. I guess i lucked out. Cav Is that you in the video? Edited August 4, 2013 by cavalier99
Author ReadMyThread Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 (edited) Yo whats man. Sorry your feeling bad. Totally sucks. She really did a number on you again. Im not on here too much but i had to respomd when i saw u post. Hang in there bro. I guess never break NC again. I was sure you were healed after so long. But it goes to show you how easily a recover can fall apart with just 1 month of getting back together. bummer. My 7 months of NC cured me completly but it is always a risk getting back in touch. I guess i lucked out. Cav Cav! My guy! Yeah man it sucks. But to be honest I think I will be better web I turn 21. My plan is to go out and meet new people but I'm only 20 and can't until I'm 21. 4 more months to wait and I think I will be in a better place then. Yeah I DEFINETELY made the same mistake 3 times shame on me lol but Its different this time. I mean I'm hurt but not where I was when it happened the first time you know? I'll be okay. Just 4 months to go. Yes that is me. Probably not what you expected eh? Lol. Edited August 4, 2013 by ReadMyThread Spelling.
cavalier99 Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 (edited) Cav! My guy! Yeah man it sucks. But to be honest I think I will be better web I turn 21. My plan is to go out and meet new people but I'm only 20 and can't until I'm 21. 4 more months to wait and I think I will be in a better place then. Yeah I DEFINETELY made the same mistake 3 times shame on me lol but Its different this time. I mean I'm hurt but not where I was when it happened the first time you know? I'll be okay. Just 4 months to go Haha. Yeah in spite of your post i can tell your not as devastated as before. Youll be fine man. You know the drill. Just find another babe to distract you like you did last time. (What happened to her?) I remeber you talking about how you missed the emotional connection blah blah blah with your ex. Well f*ck that sh*t. Just enjoy being young and single. Your going to get sucked right into another realtionship anyway so enjoy the ride while it lasts!. Im happy with the new girl but i was also really happy being single and seemed to just be getting going when whammm! New rs. Anyway stay strong. You sound more bored than truly heart broken this time around. Not minimize any pain you might feel but i know youll bounce back quick! I liked the video. Didnt have any expectations about what you looked like..maybe cooler than i thought! Lol cav Edited August 4, 2013 by cavalier99
D-Lish Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 My best advice is to accept some accountability for how you treat yourself and make a pledge to yourself to make better decisions regarding whom you date. You've let a woman that has cheated and wronged you back into your life repeatedly, expecting a different outcome. In my experience, healing and change starts with an epiphany. No one can guide you to your life changing epiphany - because it is an intrinsic struggle. You can continue to dwell on a person that doesn't deserve you, or you can wake up and start making life happen differently for you. You don't have to be lonely, the aforementioned is not happenstance. The sooner you realize you have more control over your life than you're allowing yourself credit for- the sooner you can start driving your life again. 3
Virgil876 Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 I'm going at it alone. I don't think it's fair when girls break up with guys, they will always get preferential treatment, everybody would be asking if they're alright etc. It's not fair but I'm not complaining and it is how it is.
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