randymac Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 I have been seperated from my wife for almost 7 months now. The last couple of months I was doing pretty good with the whole seperation thing. I have not spoke to her or seen her in 3 1/2 months. The last 2 weeks i've been doing extremely bad with it. I am very sad again and depressed. She hasn't filed for divorce, but wants nothing to do with me. Why am I so depressed again? After being OK (not great) with the fact that I will be diovorced? She want's the divorce not me.
tattoomytoe Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 maybe reality came back and bitch-slapped your face....... and it hurts. look at it like this. when someone dies, it is painful, but you do move on....then a few months down the road it may hit you all over again with all the finality of death. i say it is totally normal, to feel ok, then to feel yterrible again. and do not look at it as bad or as a regression....it is not...it is just being human. then you can factor in stress and a ton of other things into your equation.....all can lead to bouts of unhappiness, especially this time of year. At least you can recognize the problem and are seeking some advice and/ or support....most peolpe will not even admit that there are things wrong. Pat on the back for you.
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