truth_seeker Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 I've heard this term many times over: Hot and Bothered. This mean when I'm talking to a woman she gets upset, anxious, laughs, awkward, all out of sorts, she is hot and bothered?
sweetkiwi Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 Mmmmmm NO. Hot and bothered means horny. /thread 3
Author truth_seeker Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 Mmmmmm NO. Hot and bothered means horny. /thread That's it? DTF only?
sweetkiwi Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 That's it? DTF only? Just because a woman is horny doesn't mean she's DTF.... 2
Author truth_seeker Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 Just because a woman is horny doesn't mean she's DTF.... Okay, but if you see a guy you like and he makes you anxious, blush, wouldn't that be considered hot and bothered?
MrCastle Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 How many ways can Kiwi explain this to you? If a woman sees a guy she likes and he makes her anxious, blush, etc it might just mean she has romantic feelings for him. Sure romantic feelings often lead to arousal but the two are not mutually exclusive. I can have thoughts or feelings around a guy but not immediately have to jump him or change my panties... I'm not gonna lie. That's lame
Author truth_seeker Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 If a woman sees a guy she likes and he makes her anxious, blush, etc it might just mean she has romantic feelings for him. So this can be construed as hot and bothered.
KatZee Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 Hot and bothered means horny and wanting to hook up/have sex. Blushing and being shy around a guy you like doesn't mean you're horny and want to bang him. It could be she's nervous, and doesn't want to say/do the wrong thing in front of the guy she's into. Hot and bothered is a SEXUAL reference only. For example: "Jim and Mary were making out on the couch for 30 minutes. The way Jim worked his tongue made Mary hot and bothered." Blushing and being shy shouldn't be construed as being hot and bothered. Hot and bothered would look more like... a sexual gaze, nibbling the lower lip, mouth slightly opened, shallow breathing. 1
sweetkiwi Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 No way, I just don't have sex on the brain 24/7. If I have a genuine interest, I try to separate sexual desire from romantic otherwise (knowing myself) I will get too wrapped up in sexual fantasy (thoughts, etc) and confuse the two. I for sure have sex on the brain 24/7, but life has taught me that not every dude deserves to be graced with my vagina, so even if I feel all goo-goo-ga-ga at one point, they can kick me back to reality with one stupid ass move. Like thinking just because I am horny we're going to fhuck.....
Author truth_seeker Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 Hot and bothered is a SEXUAL reference only. Okay. Got my answer.
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