JadedRomantic Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 So ... here's the background a little: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/407742-does-he-want-me-back-one-hell-breadcrumb We talked and agreed to try it again, but to take it very slowly and not put any labels on it yet. We hang out every day, we laugh, we talk, we discuss deeper things, we watch movies, go out ... we even kiss and hug. He says and does romantic little things and brings up happy times and memories from our first go around. He's reassuring but honest when I am being emotional or being insecure. It's been a week and a half now. I think things are going well and he says he loves me and realizes now that I was perfect and that he loves and appreciates all I did to keep us solid and he has apologized profusely for hurting me and saying he hates himself for it. So ... here's the thing though. there's romance and a little flirtation, there's kisses and hugs, we'll lay with each other, cuddle. But he won't have sex with me or spend the night. I don't push the issue either, but I have mentioned lightly that I wouldn't be opposed to the idea Everything seems to be going well (it's not ALL sunshine and rainbows but we're on a good path) so why won't he take it to the intimate level of sex? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
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