Dumped85 Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 May be a bit personal, but to get over a person. Is it better to avoid any fantasy of that person in a sexual way?
onearthur Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 Let your mind do as it pleases and go with the flow, the key is to ensure you have no contact as that is what will help you move on... May be a bit personal, but to get over a person. Is it better to avoid any fantasy of that person in a sexual way? 1
JustAReformedGirl Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 May be a bit personal, but to get over a person. Is it better to avoid any fantasy of that person in a sexual way? If the fantasies of them come, unbidden, it would pretty difficult to do that. If you're consciously fantasizing about whomever it is-then yes, you should probably try to avoid thinking about them that way. You might only make yourself miss them more. Otherwise, I'd say you need to let your feelings run their course. Even if you manage to quell those thoughts during the day, you may find yourself having sexual dreams about them. It's happened to me. Nothing is more devastating than waking from that dream, only to realize it can never be again. Well, there are worse things. But when it comes to matters of the heart, I'd say that hurts pretty damn bad.
unexpectedlyhere Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 I just wanted to share this because it's funny and vaguely related. I had an erotic dream about my ex last night. When I woke up, it took me a while but eventually I realised, the only way what I was doing would have worked out, is if he had two penises It made me laugh and helped shrug the dream off.
Author Dumped85 Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 Ohh, because when they do come up. I avoid it completely, to avoid disappointment of not being with her again. I miss everything about her.
jesse93 Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 i have this problem also.. every time before bed i have these type of thoughts usually its hard to avoid because i was so physically attracted to her, but you just have to keep your mind off it as much as you can.
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