Author I'msolostatthemoment Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 I'm not sure I can get private messages, but if I can, sure. I'd be happy to discuss ideas with you. I cannot send you a private message to you at present, you sound like a lovely person, and some of your wisdom and guidance would be most appreciated by me. Sorry about this moderators. I'll be honest with you all here. I love this guy. I think about him all the time, and I love spending time with him. Maybe over the next while I will work out how I could talk to him, and let him know. It would feel good to get it off my chest, and see what he says anyways. I'm not getting any younger! 1
HiddenUser Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 I cannot send you a private message to you at present, you sound like a lovely person, and some of your wisdom and guidance would be most appreciated by me. Sorry about this moderators. I'll be honest with you all here. I love this guy. I think about him all the time, and I love spending time with him. Maybe over the next while I will work out how I could talk to him, and let him know. It would feel good to get it off my chest, and see what he says anyways. I'm not getting any younger! Well, if you'd like to discuss some ideas, you can send an email to my throwaway account and we can talk there, or find a better way to converse. I'm starting a channel for inspiration, self help and self improvement for people to begin living their lives the way they want to, so now's as good a time as any for me. This is only if you'd really like to. Don't feel obligated to jump through hoops to talk to me or anything. I'd just like to extend the opportunity to talk if you'd still like to. [email protected] is my throwaway account. Nonetheless, I'm super happy to hear that you're looking forward to making some changes and slowly working your way up. I'm very happy for you. 1
kaylan Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 Interested men aren't afraid to ask women out, unless they're socially inept or lack confidence. Or if they arent sure shes interested and dont wanna risk making their friendship awkward. 2
Author I'msolostatthemoment Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 Or if they arent sure shes interested and dont wanna risk making their friendship awkward. I am incredibly shy, so I think it could be partly my own fault, and partly him not knowing what to think, that could be possible. But then again, surely there are many men out there who wouldn't know if a girl likes them or not, and would still go ahead and ask them out? Or would it be a case for many men that they need to find out someway in advance if a girl likes them before they ask her out or make some sort of a move?
Author I'msolostatthemoment Posted August 4, 2013 Author Posted August 4, 2013 Well, if you'd like to discuss some ideas, you can send an email to my throwaway account and we can talk there, or find a better way to converse. I'm starting a channel for inspiration, self help and self improvement for people to begin living their lives the way they want to, so now's as good a time as any for me. This is only if you'd really like to. Don't feel obligated to jump through hoops to talk to me or anything. I'd just like to extend the opportunity to talk if you'd still like to. [email protected] is my throwaway account. Nonetheless, I'm super happy to hear that you're looking forward to making some changes and slowly working your way up. I'm very happy for you. I emailed you just there to the account you said. Will you let me know if you got it ok HiddenUser? Thank you so very much xx 1
HiddenUser Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 I emailed you just there to the account you said. Will you let me know if you got it ok HiddenUser? Thank you so very much xx Message received! Woo hoo! 1
SJC2008 Posted August 4, 2013 Posted August 4, 2013 If you havent figured it out... by reading this thread and the 100s of others like this Women arent wired to straight ask a guy out unless its a friend or someone extremely safe. Rejection from a guy kills a woman's soul 1000xs worse then a girl rejecting a guy. Its why they go into whats called "auto-rejection" They will start convincing themselves that the person is the worst idea, emotionally throw him under a bus in their minds and move on quickly Contrary to the views/likes of other posters of this thread, the guys at fault here, and its probably a lack of confidence on his part which is why she can't just "ask" him out probably on subconscious level because he's not a strong enough leader to lead their interactions. I've been asked out so that throws out your theory. No one cares about her soul. I sure don't. Ding Ding Ding, all alpha males to the showers!!!
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