ginger21589 Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 After my ex boyfriend and I broke up he wouldn't stop contacting me, so I finally asked him not to contact me for a while. He didn't listen of course and kept acting as if he cared. Then he completely stopped texting and without a warning just stopped. Then a few days later he deleted me from facebook. Saw he was in a relationship with someone else, who wasn’t even his type. Nobody thought it was going to last, then 2 weeks later they broke up. We didn't speak for those 2 weeks and I was completely fine. The same day they broke up he texted me that evening and I acted as if I didn’t know who it was. Then he got on skype and messaged me there to tell me it was him who texted the other night but he didn't want to bug me. The next day he texts me and kept apologizing for what happened and kept talking about how much he sucked and how he hoped I didn't hate him and how much he missed me and how much he wanted to see me. Telling me how he wants to go to our favorite place together and plan a mini weekend getaway. Telling me if we started dating again I would be the only person he's dating. (He didn't cheat on me while we were together, I guess he was just trying to reassure me he wouldn't ever do that to me.) Pretty much showing regret. He told me in advance that Friday would be a bad day to hang out bc he was getting his car taken apart, but if it got done a decent time he would drive up and see me. He even asked if I can stay at his place for the weekend but I had to work. Now, we aren't together right now, but we are talking in a way as if we are and want to be, and I know I don't have a say in who he talks to right now because we aren’t together yet, but once we do start hanging out and figuring out what's going to happen I will definitely have a say. But yesterday I was snooping around and I went on the rebounds page and saw she posted a picture at his house in the AM. Now, I don't know if this was from a few days ago when they were together OR it was from yesterday. Don't know why he would need to even hang out with her after they broke up a few days ago when he already has what he needs with me (sexually and emotionally) I really don't know if they hung out yesterday bc he was really getting his car worked on all day... But he did say "if I don't respond back it's bc we're working on my car. If he did hang out with her why would he even attempt to try working things out with me? Why would he even hang out with her? I’m confused and I know I need to see him and talk about things. I just want to be with him again. What do I do?
mammasita Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 Who broke up with who? If he dumped you and subsequently ended his rebound that quick....then HELL NO. he's looking for an ego stroke and there is NO way hes changed. In any case, nothing has changed. He is the same and you are he same. In order for a second chance to work IMO, a significant change has to happen in the dumpers life to, in a sense, open their eyes. Wanting an ego stroke doesn't qualify.
Dolphono Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 If you broke up with him. Stay focus and move on like you planned. Dude is handling the situation like a champ and he's going to play you like a fiddle.
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