jcpenny_45 Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 I met a guy [32] about six months ago through mutual friends. After a while of hanging out in groups, we eventually started to hang out by ourselves since we had a lot in common... getting dinner, playing video games, stuff like that. I originally had a very big crush on him, and when we first started hanging out, he did ask me on a date. However, I told him I wasn't interested in sex outside of a relationship, and after the date he didn't seem to be giving any more signals and didn't ask me out again (we just hung out like normal.) So I put the attraction away and focused on being friends. At a party two weeks ago, both of us drank quite a bit, and were walking around the neighborhood. He suddenly confessed that he really liked me, and we started making out. He wanted to go back to his place, but I told him again that I didn't really dig one night stands/friends with benefits, so we just kept making out and then I went home. The last two weeks has been super busy (he had a project at work) so we haven't had a chance to hang out. When we finally hung out two days ago, he seemed kind of distant towards me. He seemed disinterested, didn't ask a lot of questions, and seemed a little annoyed. He also tried to hurry me out of the house quicker than usual, and when we were playing games, he sat as far away from me on the couch as possible. This really hurt. I was really excited to think he liked me and that we could maybe start dating. But after hanging out, I wonder if him saying he liked me was just due to his drinking, and if he really just wanted a fun hook-up. Is he annoyed at me because I didn't want a one-night stand? Was the confession just drunken rambling? How should I handle this? tl;dr: Guy friend admitted he liked me while drunk, then turned distant. What should I do?
soccerrprp Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 Yup, sounds like the influence of the alcohol had something to do with it. Also, the sex. He's not interested in you, really.
Quiet Storm Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 He's had plenty of opportunities to ask you out & chose not to. He was horny, you were there. 1
charlietheginger Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 I really dont see a difference if he dated you a few times You two had sex then he broke it off.... Or you two have drunken sex blame it on the alchol then Just play it cool and remain friends
Ninjainpajamas Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 He wants to have sex with you, but he can't seem to make you budge from your "relationship" talk, he's frustrated/disappointed he can't close the deal without a commitment.
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