Dancing Lights Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 (edited) Hello Everyone So this is my back side of the story: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/long-distance-relationships/412786-wierd-actions-my-ex-any-idea-why-ldr Today first time ever she invited me for a game and we played together, I didnt talk to her anything, even tho she tried to be "nice with me". Today she called me and she was pissed at me, she said stop talking with her friends (I know some of them even earlier than her), she said I am trying to get her back with using her friends. Yesterday she met with her girlfriend, this girl as personality liked me and we became really good friends, nothing more. My ex was telling her things what happened between us, and she made me look like a douche.(the girl knows what really happened, because I told her with chat) She is lying to her to make the things better for her, and she absolutely want to make this girl to hate me. She is soooo pissed and mad, because I am talking with her friends, and then her gf asked her, do you want me to stop talking with him if this bothers you this much? Her answer no... Then she asked why is it such a big deal for you if he talks with us? We pick our own friends and you broke up... She didnt say anything but she was mad because she said this to her. She said she wanna be my friend, and the girl said, you cant be friends with someone who you love... What you feel towards him she asked, she said I love him, and she was like this doesnt even make sense... Then the girl asked you guys broke up why you care so much what he is doing , and why dont you just delete him? And she said I dont want to delete him. Right now how her friend and I felt it, she is so not herself, she kinda brainwashed, and all she sees is my mistakes and her anger towards the things I Am doing. (No contact, not being her puppy and not asking her for more chances, not showing her my feelings) I personally know I shouldnt mess with this girl anymore after this all, but I love her and I could see her as my gf if she become the proper girl like who she used to be. I told her at the talk, after you broke up I think its not your business to tell me who I should talk with, and if you think after 3 times I came to you and asked for a chance, I am going to talk with your friends and try to get you back by that way? What you actually think about me, do you think I am this pathetic? She is so sure she knows me, but she never saw this side of myself and she is confused and soo pissed because I am not anymore feeding myself with her things. I think her new relationship doesnt working out as she wanted, and she wants to keep contact with me, or with through of her friends. Otherwise she wouldn't care soo much about what I am doing. She is just doesnt letting me, go and this is confusing, because I have feelings, and if I wouldn't love her as much I do, I would already tell her to cut it off. She might feel she can control me, but I personally think she doesnt see its not happening, the only thing why I am not saying to her to f... off because, as a person I am not that kind. If i would live in the past and I am a T-rex, I would have either learn how to eat bushes or die, because I would protect the lily dinos instead of eating them >.< Is it so bad I am having a good relationship with her friends? And what the hell is up with her? Thanks for the answers. Edited August 3, 2013 by Dancing Lights
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