keyanasmommy Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 (edited) My boyfriend of 5 months and i broke up July 15th we got back together Friday. we lived together for 4 months when we broke up he moved back to his city which is 30 minutes away. At first when we got back together things was going great. Friday we got into a huge fight over text and told each other that we never loved each other and all this other stuff. He left some things at my house and i had packed them up and put them outside on the porch I was completely done with him. He came and got his stuff and called me while he was standing on my porch he wanted to say bye to my 2 year old daughter that he got attached to. She was asleep so he just wanted to see her. Instead of him leaving he walks into my room and sits on the bed beside we talked and he started holding me. He wanted to work things out. Now here lately things have changed. I haven't seen him since Sunday he works almost every day. But the problem is he ignores my texts he claims that he's busy but it shows that he's online on facebook. I've been wanting to see him a lot this week. He has said tthat he would come on a certain day but when that day comes he can't. One day he was suppose to come and stay with me but he said he was sick and had a cold but he hung out with his friends. I confronted him he said he felt better after he got to sleep cause he works 11 to 7am . He told me he would come the next day he didn't, he told me he would stay with me tonight he said he couldn't cause he was to tired and had a busy day cause he had to pay bills. He's suppose to come tomorrow and stay with me after he gets off work. Should i end things with him? Or give it more time. I really love him but I'm getting very angry with the way acting. Edited August 3, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
perph Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 It sounds to me like he's trying to avoid you out of fear, he says one thing then goes off and does another, yet him wanting to work things out that night may have been sincere, but he may just need more time to work things out in his head. Give him some time, allow him to come to you, if it is meant to be, he will. They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder (I'm going through it right now), so give him some time and try not to pester him so much, you'll only push him away.
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