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Vinsanity1307

By Vinsanity1307
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Vinsanity1307 Established Member

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So I will not go into tremendous detail but. I dated a girl for 5 years the first two years we were officially together she was a terrible girlfriend we had our great moments but she was all about herself lying, talking to former exes secretly. and even having inappropriate conversations with them. Oh we were engaged as well.

 

Anyways after me begging alot for her to stop and still bending over backwards she dumps me for a month and resumes talking to these men. A month later she comes back i take her back and we go out about 2 months in I realize she is still a mean person so I officially dump her. She begs pleads for this not to happen. I started going on dating sites and she found out and would beg plead not to do this, she loves me the bitch in her is gone. So i stopped going on them for the time being although we never officailly got back together.

 

We acted as a couple but were not we both knew that for the next 2.5 years she would do anything and everything for me , and I just had this I dont care cocky attitude. When we would fight I would go on the dating websites to piss her off. But we would settle the dispute and id get off of them.... So i started getting nicer and making a real go of the relationship and then everything seemed fine we go on vaca together and she was all over me. Then I get back and out of no where she says she doesnt love me anymore. I beg now for her not to leave this was three weeks ago. And I really want her back.

 

My question is do I go on the dating website to show I have moved on (cause thats what everyone says if you show you moved on she will come around.) But i dont want to push her away further cause I want her. Oh and she is talking to her ex friends with benefits right now. So what do I do. Thanks

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aloneinaz Established Member

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Dude, read your post. That relationship sounded toxic and terrible. OMG.. You should RUN the other way and find someone more compatible w/you. Why would you want to get back into that mess again?

 

She dumped you. Who cares what she thinks about you getting on or off the dating sites? If you're ready to date, date. Join the sites. Maybe you'll meet "the one" and not ever think of this ex again.

 

Life's far to short to stay in lousy relationships that are not healthy.

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Closecalll New Member

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I know that you might not want to hear this, but that relationship is bad news! Your relationship is toxic! You need to try to get over her, she made it very clear by her actions and speech that she no longer wants you! Lose all contact with her and get rid of anything that reminds you of her ! I'm sure you're a very great guy and there is someone out there that wants someone just like you! In the meanwhile, just enjoy being happy with yourself, hang out with your friends, have a little fun! You're single and free! Do what ever it takes to get over her! But don't do Anything damaging!! Hope all goes well for you! - peace and blessings

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