MomsSpaghetti Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 It seems like the power structure has changed, with women now being the selectors and objectifiers of men. As a result I see on this board and others a ton of men who are insecure about their height, hair loss, lack of money, etc.
Southern Cal Dude Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 It's about the same. Difference is most women are not sexually attracted to visibly insecure men while most men don't care if a woman is insecure. 4
Pyro Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 It seems like the power structure has changed, with women now being the selectors and objectifiers of men. As a result I see on this board and others a ton of men who are insecure about their height, hair loss, lack of money, etc. In the internet world maybe. In reality both men and women are insecure for their own reasons. 2
perph Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 Because to men, women have become the selectors and men have become the selectees. In all fairness, women have weeded out undesirable men throughout the ages, though after the sexual revolution, it became more of power struggle. For me, I'm extremely picky about my women, I allow them to THINK that they chose me, when I have chosen them. Men do not understand this, they are the hunters, women are the keepers. The insecurity stems from lack of self esteem, mainly from women consistently shooting them down, which can lead to a low self image and self esteem, which can also be caused by upbringing. To be truthful, men have been lied to when it comes to attracting women from society, and they don't understand where they are going wrong, and it creates a downward spiral of lonliness and mediocrity. In essence, chivalry is pretty much dead. 1
strongnrelaxed Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Unfortunately I think you are right. This is bad for: a) most men b) America c) The next generation of boys d) most women But is is great for men like me. The pool of competition has thinned out so much that it is easy to be selective about women. If one woman becomes unreasonable or difficult, there is a long line of others right behind her looking for a good man. I would much rather be settled down with one woman. In fact it has been my inability to get this that has caused me to grow up and get with the program. Life is different as you mention and I have embraced it. Unfortunately it is not good from women that this has happened. You have to watch what you ask for, you just might get it.
strongnrelaxed Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Because to men, women have become the selectors and men have become the selectees. I agree with most of your post. But women think that they control sex and courtship, but this has never really been true except when men are young and inexperienced. When men get older and have more to offer (and more to lose) they wise up. Women get sold this BS lie that "women are smarter" and "men are pigs and dogs and all want one thing" Then the reality of life hits them and they hate men for not acting in accordance with these "rules". What's worse is that women then feel insecure because men are not chasing them the way they were led to believe. Then they claim that men are "afraid of commitment" It is a lose lose for women and win win for men - not politically and not for our gender, but for individual men. It is funny to watch older women act in these bizarre ways and refuse to listen to reason. It is also funny to watch women read Cosmo for advice and try to use it in real life with disastrous results. Life is funny this way. Everything is basically the opposite of what you have been told, and it is only those who realize this who will ultimately be happy and secure.
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