Monodare1 Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 Looking for advice, my wife asked for a separation a month and a half ago, we have a 2 and a half year old little boy. The house is 20 miles away from me as I had to move back in with my elderly father as thing were to awkward between my wife and I. Trouble is, my mother in law had relationship problems and my wife has asked her and her two younger siblings to move in now that I've moved out. The mother in law has offered to pay my half of the mortgage until such time as she can officially be added to it which would allow me to be struck from the mortgage (depending on financial checks etc). Dies anyone have advice? How should I handle this situation, how should I proceed?
Balzac Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 I'd contact your divorce atty but execute a lease w your MIL. Or you could sell her your % of the home and execute a quit claim deed. Get this into official paper. 1
Yasuandio Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 Acward or not, I'd move myself right back in, ASAP, while everyone is at work. It would only take you wife a matter of a couple hours with an attorney so explain you have abandoned the home, and MIL has stept in to cover expenses. That is exactly how it looks. You left, right? Stay in the home until the paperwork is sort and your side in document in the divorce filings. Then you can leave. When they walk in and see you watching the game with your feet propped up, they both are going to have a shyt. Then -- get to that attorney once you are back in your homestead. You see man, walking away like that is SO dumb. You just gave up a huge bargaining chip. An easy one for you at that - cause you don't even want the house. Now get your rear end home right now. Yas 1
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