Helloxo Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 Ok so my bf and I we were doing fine everything was cool between us. On Monday night he called me, we talked for about 2hours the convo we had was amazing we talked about the future and I was gonna go see him for my bday on the 31st of this month and he was excited. Like that convo we had was one of the best in a while. Before we hung up to sleep. I asked him why he wanted to commit to me since he's only 19 like what's so special about me that makes him stay with me. & he was like cuz Jess I trust u with my life. I can't trust no one else they always leave after a mistake. & I was like aw I feel the same like I'm flattered u trust me like that. Then we said gn Ily. Then on Tuesday night I asked if he was gonna call me he said he was studying for the big exam he has from school so I was like ok then text me tomorrow and if he didn't id be mad and he said ok. Then he didn't text so I didn't text him then last night I texted him askin him to call me. Then he said no and to stop texting him. I was like wtf what I do? Then he said just stop texting me. Then I said give me a reason and I'll stop texting u then he said to just stop talking to him. I said how can u tell me all those things otp but now ur telling me to stop talking u! Then I asked if he was talking to someone else and if he was I'd leave him alone and he then replied to just stop texting him I asked for closure he didn't say anything. He done this couple times before then came back like nothing happened. I'm just so confused like why would he do such a thing we never got in a fight in those days what made him change his mind idk. I just want a reason. I feel like he's scared cus he was like Jess don't get my hopes up, before we got off the phone on that night. He's a Gemini I'm a virgo.
zues Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 by the sounds of things you both are very very young. so what i am going to tell you now is, do not worry about it, you might think he is your whole world now. Trust me he isint there will be loads of more boys that will grace your life and you wont even think about him. let him get on with it, you have years before you settle enjoy life and enjoy what it throws at you because in years from now you will look at this and laugh trust me! good luck
Author Helloxo Posted August 2, 2013 Author Posted August 2, 2013 I understand I just want to know why this all of a sudden. Btw I'm 23 :/.
zues Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 best advice i can give, is stop contacting him. wait to see if he contacts you. if not go full no contact and move on with your life. love should be simple and if its head wrecking like that you dont need it, someone better out there for you
Author Helloxo Posted August 3, 2013 Author Posted August 3, 2013 That's true, thank you I'll do that.
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