johndoes Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 So my ex of seven months broke up with me about a month ago and I haven't talked to her since. She said we argued too much and that she has always been in love with her ex from seven years ago but has been in previous relationship after him. She broke up with me through text because I was away for work and I just couldn't clear my head from it when she told me she wanted to take a break so I asked her through text what was going to happen with us. So that was initiated by me. So when I asked her the next day when I get back if we could meet up and she said that we could meet up sometime but I never heard anything when I got back even after I texted her letting her know I was back. Ever since then(been a month) we have been in no contact and I deleted her from my face book and moved on. I'm still not ready to meet her in person but I do want to try and explain everything that I have realized there were issues with are relationship and we both need time to clear our heads and work on them. I want to let her know that I didn't delete her from Facebook because I don't want to be friends but I did it so I wouldn't live in the past and I could reevaluate everything so I can become a better person from it. Let her know that I know it will take time but I do wan to remain friends. I'm not trying to win her back be cause I know it will fail again but I do want to let her know these things or I feel like I should. Should I do this through the text because I don't really know her work schedule anymore and I dont want to call her when she is busy and since she didn't respond back the last time I wanted to meet up. I don't know if it should be in person even though I know that it would be more sincere. Just need some advice. Need to know if i should even do it or if it is just a lost call. I know its over but for some reason I feel like I should do this.
Xiphias92 Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 She said we argued too much and that she has always been in love with her ex from seven years ago but has been in previous relationship after him. That caught my attention. Honestly, would you really want her back considering the fact she told you she has always been in love with her ex? That's like a kick in the groin! Makes you feel like you were second best all this time. Even then, that shows she brought emotional baggage into the relationship she had with you. Not good at all. I wouldn't worry about her anymore. You are no longer obligated to give her an explanation, call her, text her or see her. It she wants an explanation or at least see you, then she should go look for you, not the other way around.
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