maestrok Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 OK I broke up over this issue. What are your thoughts? Basically I am not OK with my bf to bring his female friend as a guest to a party. I am not OK with my bf to go out to lunch/dinner/drink with a female friend one on one. I am not OK with my bf looking after his female friend as if he is her dad or bf or only friend. Am I being too unreasonable?
Phoe Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 I think you're leaving out a lot of crucial info. Is he choosing to take a friend to a party instead of taking you? How often is he having lunch with? How does he know this girl? What does "looking after her" even mean? I can personally say that there are scenarios that fit that bill I'd personally be okay with. There are other scenarios that I would not be okay with. For example - Old family friend that he catches up with every now and then? No problem. Ex-girlfriend that he maintained a friendship with? I would not be okay with him having lunch with her.
MomsSpaghetti Posted August 3, 2013 Posted August 3, 2013 If he had a romantic interest in any of these female friends, he would be secretive about things. The fact that he has been pretty open about these friendships means that he probably doesn't have the hots for any of the girls.
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