Sleepwalk Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 A small update here,back in June,if I can remember,I made a topic here,with some shades of being upset myself.Two months since total no-contact with my ex.And believe me,you all can do it,it depends on your will,and most importantly,YOU NEED TO OPEN YOUR EYES! In the first few days,I was just like every complaint I read on here,I couldn't hold back not to start any conversations with her.But days kept passing,and two months passed.And here I am,I am not a puppet,not a toy,and I don't need to adjust my mood according to someone else's frequency.No need to behave,to feel ashamed,to be silent.If others can give up on drugs that have been causing them years of pain,you can give up on a,for example 5 month relationship. The thing is,even if she is the only thing that plays in your head,you can express that,but not towards her.You can't always focus on something else,but you can easily hold yourself back from sharing what you feel WITH HER.Sooner or later,you will give up on talking to her,from calling to texts,from texts to nothing,and,then,you will give up on holding onto her. You need to,you are a human being,that can live on its own,not a parasite,that needs somebody to get their own energy for living. 2
HopelessRomantick Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 A small update here,back in June,if I can remember,I made a topic here,with some shades of being upset myself.Two months since total no-contact with my ex.And believe me,you all can do it,it depends on your will,and most importantly,YOU NEED TO OPEN YOUR EYES! In the first few days,I was just like every complaint I read on here,I couldn't hold back not to start any conversations with her.But days kept passing,and two months passed.And here I am,I am not a puppet,not a toy,and I don't need to adjust my mood according to someone else's frequency.No need to behave,to feel ashamed,to be silent.If others can give up on drugs that have been causing them years of pain,you can give up on a,for example 5 month relationship. The thing is,even if she is the only thing that plays in your head,you can express that,but not towards her.You can't always focus on something else,but you can easily hold yourself back from sharing what you feel WITH HER.Sooner or later,you will give up on talking to her,from calling to texts,from texts to nothing,and,then,you will give up on holding onto her. You need to,you are a human being,that can live on its own,not a parasite,that needs somebody to get their own energy for living. Thanks I hope your words can get me through. They are inspiring. Glad you've made it to the other side.
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