berkeley1987 Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 she broke up with me 2 months ago based on that she wasn't happy. she blocked me on all social network sites. i found out through my cousin who is following her on instagram that she deleted every single picture of us. they were pictures of all our vacations, dates, holidays, birthdays, and even a picture of us when we made our relationship official. this really hurt me when i found out about it, because it feels like our relationship didn't mean anything. i expressed this to my ex and asked her if its because theres another guy? she got upset and said there isn't. she went on to say "if it makes you feel better, i print screened all of our pictures to archive." how should i feel about this?? is she trying to move on or does she still care about me??
Philosoraptor Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 Everyone does what they need to do in order to move on. I deleted everything that reminded me of my ex, even gave away or burned everything in the fireplace. She may care about you, but needs to remove you from her life in order to move on, start fresh, and eventually meet someone else.
unexpectedlyhere Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 You can ask your ex for the pictures if they are important to you, but you shouldn't ask what she does with them or why she did what she chose to. That's her way of coping with the breakup.
Author berkeley1987 Posted August 2, 2013 Author Posted August 2, 2013 well she says she doesn't want to be with anyone else. feels jaded. she doesn't want me to be with another girl either. how should i take that?
Philosoraptor Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 well she says she doesn't want to be with anyone else. feels jaded. she doesn't want me to be with another girl either. how should i take that? I'm not saying this is the case, but oftentimes people say this in order to have the ex hold on while they go and see what the rest of the world has to offer. You are not together anymore, so you owe her nothing.
Author berkeley1987 Posted August 2, 2013 Author Posted August 2, 2013 so you're saying she's trying to make me hold on to her, like a safety net if she can't find a new partner?
Philosoraptor Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 so you're saying she's trying to make me hold on to her, like a safety net if she can't find a new partner? I'm saying that's a common theme when something like that is said. It may not be the case in this situation, but oftentimes it is.
Moper Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 so you're saying she's trying to make me hold on to her, like a safety net if she can't find a new partner? Let go. Easier said than done of course, but ex means ex. At least for me there is no in between.
Author berkeley1987 Posted August 2, 2013 Author Posted August 2, 2013 i've waited since high school to be with this girl. when i found out she liked me last year, we dated and became a couple after. i can't let go of this girl like that. its too soon. i feel she's the one.
unexpectedlyhere Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 It's awful to hear but, sadly, she doesn't think you're the one. So unless you want to become The Subzero, try to forget about it. Ask for your photos, then move out of her life. And think of you.
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