someguy84 Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 So I have been on two dates with this woman, one last Thursday, and another this past Tuesday. Tuesdays date went really well. I took her to one of her favorite restaurants in town, we talked for a while, and when I felt the moment was right I went for a kiss, which turned into a short makeout session. She was smiling the whole night and said that night she had a wonderful time. She also suggested we try yoga together, but I already had a baseball game to go to. Anyway, I texted her on Wednesday just to say hi and tell her what a great time I had. It was pretty regular back and forth until about 8pm, when she stopped responding abruptly. I figured I may be coming on too strong until she texted me an apology last night that she got caught up talking on the phone. She asked how the game was and I asked how yoga was. It was a quick back and forth again until I asked about getting together tonight to take in some live music and get dinner. She said she is a night owl, and I sent the text at around 9:30, just 15 minutes after her last text. I am getting 2 things from our interactions. I kind of get the impression that I am coming on too strong. I also think maybe she is suggesting I should call her to ask her out instead of text. I figure that she isn't interested tonight, so I think I will try calling her (not text) early next week to try to set something up. I am trying to not overanalyze, but its a little annoying when it seems like she is ignoring me asking her out again.
aloneinaz Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 I would text or call her again if she ignored your questions about going to the live music. To me, it feels like she's playing games a bit. Let her contact you next and don't ask her out. See how that plays out. If it appears things are back on tract again, CALL HER and ask her out on the phone. It's such a fine line between coming on to strong and playing it cool. Women like a challenge just as much as a guy, so you have to be careful there in not coming on too strong.
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