irc333 Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 We've all here talked about Meetups and occasionally, and if it's a dinner Meetup where a guy takes a liking to a woman sitting next to him, attempts to get her check when the check comes. Good move or bad move?
New User Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 Not something I'd do. I don't know that I'd call it "bad" but it seems almost like an attempt to buy affection. I would think that if there's any kind of spark it would make more sense to just ask her out on a proper date. 1
dasein Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 Bad move, much better to try to get her to pick up your check in a jokey way. "Oh hi, X, I'm Y, you are the person paying all the checks right? Here's mine." hold out the check to her and wait a few seconds and then wink at her while obviously "trying to keep a straight face."
will1988 Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 Bad move... unless you are on an actual date. In this situation it looks like you are trying to buy her attention and you end up looking kind of creepy.
Imported Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 Haven't seen that. You'd have to seriously be a knob to try it and think it'd look like anything other than lame and reaching. Seen guys pay for the whole table though or hear a girl talk about liking wine, so buys a whole bottle of the really good **** for everyone. It works! More guys should try it! Women love generous dudes. No, I am not trying to get free meals and wine for myself 1
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