loveRight Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 WHATS the real reason a guy runs away from communication? Why is it so difficult for a man to admit he made a mistake and take responsibility to give an explanation? i dont think thats asking for too much since i would do the same if i were in his position.
Philosoraptor Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 Every person is different. Both men and women are bad communicators and often too prideful to admit mistakes they made. Understand that you and he are different; and just because you would have went one way doesn't mean he, or anyone else, would do the same. Just the magic of individuality. 1
Treasa Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 It has nothing to do with being male and everything to do with the individual. Rather than question why, accept it for what it is and find better next time. 1
soccerrprp Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 I'm really starting to believe that effective communication is becoming or has become a lost art. I believe that much of that has to do with the change of the family structure (both parents too busy) and the electronic age where every one is texting, using texting free-hand, emailing, blogging, online communicating...instead of speaking to one another face-to-face. Men, in our society, are not encouraged as much to be effective communicators. We are, for the most part, taught to be more stoic about our feelings, but it is interesting that when we want something bad enough we are all open to it, huh? So, in the end, Philosoraptor is correct. We're all different. Some are good at communication and some suck. Or some are strategic users of communication and use is to their benefit and frequency based on what they want. Hard to say. I suspect his family life, upbringing has something to do with it. His personality as well...is he naturally introverted? Number of different reason.
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