Starting to get to me

[bumblebee22]

My boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago, mutually. We've been together 2 years, except for a 1 month period where we were on a break and he slept with another girl.. it's relevant to the rest of the story- but this happened over a year ago so we had moved on and everything with that girl was fine and over. anyway, We were still talking friendly and it was more of a break than a break up honestly. All of a sudden though, he started giving me an attitude and when I asked him why he blew up at me and we got into an argument. That night, he unfollowed me from twitter and he re-added the girl he hooked up with when we were broken up on facebook and twitter. so i called him and asked what the purpose of that was, like of all people was that really necessary? I know he only was doing it to get me upset and it obviously worked. I told him he'd regret it and hung up, didn't answer the rest of his calls and blocked his number the next morning. Blocked him from facebook, made my twitter private the whole 9. It wasn't so much that I didn't want to talk to him but I didn't even want to hear him try to justify why he would rekindle his "relationship" (basically just sex) with this girl when he knew it would negate everything that we have accomplished in the past year. He hasn't tried to contact me once, and this is unlike him. I noticed also that his sister, who I didn't delete off facebook is now friends with the girl too. I don't know what that's about but I can obviously gather they are getting just as friendly as they were last time. I REALLY don't want to be weak and call him but honestly sometimes sitting here when I get home from work/going out I just miss talking to him. He's my best friend. I lost a lot when we broke up. I don't want anything to do with him because his actions since the break up disgust me but there's a part of me that is kindof let down by him that he is throwing everything away so quickly. I just don't understand, and I'm having more and mroe moments of weakness. I unblocked his number to see if he would try to call and he still hasn't. (There's no way for him to know he's blocked unless he calls so I'm just guessing he hasn't tried since the first day...) I feel like nothing from our relationship meant anything to him if hes jumping out at the first thing he can think of. It's so hurtful to even think he has the ability to do this knowing it would make it so that we could never be together again. I have way too much dignity to go back to him a second time after he's done this same thing with this girl. Some nights though.. it's just really hard.

[Omei]

My boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago, mutually. We've been together 2 years, except for a 1 month period where we were on a break and he slept with another girl.. it's relevant to the rest of the story- but this happened over a year ago so we had moved on and everything with that girl was fine and over. anyway, We were still talking friendly and it was more of a break than a break up honestly. All of a sudden though, he started giving me an attitude and when I asked him why he blew up at me and we got into an argument. That night, he unfollowed me from twitter and he re-added the girl he hooked up with when we were broken up on facebook and twitter. so i called him and asked what the purpose of that was, like of all people was that really necessary? I know he only was doing it to get me upset and it obviously worked. I told him he'd regret it and hung up, didn't answer the rest of his calls and blocked his number the next morning. Blocked him from facebook, made my twitter private the whole 9. It wasn't so much that I didn't want to talk to him but I didn't even want to hear him try to justify why he would rekindle his "relationship" (basically just sex) with this girl when he knew it would negate everything that we have accomplished in the past year. He hasn't tried to contact me once, and this is unlike him. I noticed also that his sister, who I didn't delete off facebook is now friends with the girl too. I don't know what that's about but I can obviously gather they are getting just as friendly as they were last time. I REALLY don't want to be weak and call him but honestly sometimes sitting here when I get home from work/going out I just miss talking to him. He's my best friend. I lost a lot when we broke up. I don't want anything to do with him because his actions since the break up disgust me but there's a part of me that is kindof let down by him that he is throwing everything away so quickly. I just don't understand, and I'm having more and mroe moments of weakness. I unblocked his number to see if he would try to call and he still hasn't. (There's no way for him to know he's blocked unless he calls so I'm just guessing he hasn't tried since the first day...) I feel like nothing from our relationship meant anything to him if hes jumping out at the first thing he can think of. It's so hurtful to even think he has the ability to do this knowing it would make it so that we could never be together again. I have way too much dignity to go back to him a second time after he's done this same thing with this girl. Some nights though.. it's just really hard.

 

It's time to get angry, he did it once now he's doing it again, stop checking your phone you should be angry enough to not care! You forgave once why should you again if he did call anyway! I know you want him to call and have him say how sorry he is but he's not and even if he did you already put so much effort into forgiving why should you ever again its such a kick in the teeth learn to forget him.