she keeps asking if i love her

[zigg1]

so this girl ive been seeing made a deal that we cant fall in love. we are just friends with benifits, but we talk all the time. see each other at work all the time. we never hung out outside of work, but we are starting to. She keeps asking me if i love her then tells me not to answer and shes just kidding. i dont know what she means by that.

 

She said we cant fall in love. but hinted she will only sleep with a man she loves. I can tell this girl is falling in love with me But im not sure if i am with her just yet. I know im starting to though

 

but do you think she wants me to say yes? i just evade the question and we laugh about it.

[soccerrprp]

She's falling or has fallen in love with you (or had deep feelings as you suspect). That's why she's asking. She doesn't want to admit it to appear vulnerable in case you don't feel the same. But she is hoping you do have feelings for her. She wants more....but, she's afraid of rejection.

[amaysngrace]

She sounds needy. And a bit psycho...

[zigg1]

She's falling or has fallen in love with you (or had deep feelings as you suspect). That's why she's asking. She doesn't want to admit it to appear vulnerable in case you don't feel the same. But she is hoping you do have feelings for her. She wants more....but, she's afraid of rejection.

 

yhea i think so too, if she didnt she wouldnt have asked me those questions. im gonna see how long before she asks me again lol

[TigerCub]

I'm confused...

You're "seeing" a girl that keeps saying that you guys must not fall in love

She wants you to be friends with benefits

But won't sleep with someone unless she loves them

 

Isn't that kind of a catch22 ?

 

So, you guys aren't really fwb if she's not sleeping with you - no?

 

And now the constant "do you love me?"

Oyi

 

She sounds annoying!!!

 

She clearly is falling for you, but doesn't know how to express her feelings or be straightforward about what she wants.