lifeislove88 Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 I've posted my story of my breakup on here but I keep feeling worse and worse. He was the most perfect guy for me and felt the same about me. Everyone KNEW we were meant to be and neither of us had ever been happier. We had our future planned and we clicked right away and were so deeply connected. Once he moved home after the Army, (we had been dating for 2 years) I moved to be with him and was there for a year. He had a busy schedule so I didn't see him much but I could tell that he wasn't as affectionate and spent lots of time with his friends golfing or playing video games on weekends. Then, one day I asked what we would do if I moved home to go back to school... He said that I wouldn't like his answer. That he didn't see us moving forward anymore. But couldn't put his finger on why, and he loved everything about me; it was nothing either of us could do or fix. He loves me but we don't "blend" like he thought we did. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??? That, and I moved back home (1,000 miles away) and before I left, he was crying and hugged me forever and said we'll stay in touch and I'll see him soon, like he's looking forward to it (we're both in our friends wedding). He hasn't even texted me yet, and I'm not doing it first. I just want any input on why he can say that he didn't want this to happen and can't identify what went wrong, and how he can be so upset and not even talk to me. ???????????? I feel so rejected. I want him to realize he was wrong and want me backkkkk
zues Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 its confusing reading it never mind living it. By the sounds of things he doesnt think you are the one he is going to spend the rest of his life with. he was crying because he knows he will miss you dearly and must also be having doubts about you being the so called one. stay no contact if he loves you he will realize it.
aloneinaz Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 Hun, you need to move on. He lost interest in you and the relationship. Don't focus on the words he used during the break up. They are meaningless. Focus on his actions. His actions were to tell you he didn't want you in his life anymore. Stay NC and focus on you and your healing. It sucks, trust me I know. You'll find someone in the future who will want you for you. 1
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