maestrok Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 Ive been posting here about whether i should break up or not and everyone advised me that if i were to break up with him i should do so clearly and asap. So i did. I miss him so much.... I just do. Maye i broke up too soon.... But because i broke uP so clearly and explicitly there is no going back. I think about him all day long and im all confused. Guess i should really try to forget him though....
forgetmenot75 Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 I've read your previous thread about how uncomfortable you were with some sexual propositions he made. At that time you were sure you don't want to pursue the relationship based on his sexual preferences. I honestly think you rush your decisions breaking up with him. Evidently you are still attached to him, and I think you should spoke with him clearly about the things that make you feel uncomfortable in sex, before dumping him! Things are done now, and you must get responsible for your actions. Keep no contact for some weeks, and then try to speak to him again. He should be feeling terrible right now, he's been dumped. Let him alone. I'm sorry you rushed things so much.
Author maestrok Posted August 1, 2013 Author Posted August 1, 2013 I've read your previous thread about how uncomfortable you were with some sexual propositions he made. At that time you were sure you don't want to pursue the relationship based on his sexual preferences. I honestly think you rush your decisions breaking up with him. Evidently you are still attached to him, and I think you should spoke with him clearly about the things that make you feel uncomfortable in sex, before dumping him! Things are done now, and you must get responsible for your actions. Keep no contact for some weeks, and then try to speak to him again. He should be feeling terrible right now, he's been dumped. Let him alone. I'm sorry you rushed things so much. Well i made it clear at that point what i was uncomfortable with (not just sexual but other things) and he would never push it but would bring up the topic over and over. That aside, i felt like i can never really tell a guy what i like or dont like about him (for example i hate that he still talks to his ex some times) because i shouldnt try to change him right? Then youre only option is to leave or not....
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