stevedex Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 Hi Many thanks to the people who have helped me out in the past on this board. I wrote over a year ago , I was finding it difficult to put the past where it belonged , . I was struggling whether to remain civil (not friends with benefits) with an ex of mine who cheated on me several times with her ex . I was struggling with this "friendship", she was always chatty and friendly like nothing had happened and I was very hurt . I decided one day, she is not a friend (she never apologised to me, in her eyes she felt she had done nothing wrong) and to be fair why would I want a friend like that in my life? I decided one day to walk past her and ignore her, cut her dead. Some people see this not taking the high road , I had always tried to "take the high rd" and be friends with her. After a year of ignoring each other , a few months ago she spoke to me, I just ignored her, I don't think this is bad really, nothing has changed , if she thinks im hurt or I am still bothered about her, that's up to her, Id rather not have anything to do with her, friends or otherwise . Yes Ive forgiven her, she was still in love with her ex and just tried to move her life on by rebounding onto me, but to keep cheating and then being with me for the things I did for her, is someone who is not worth knowing. Im getting married next year , I don't know what my ex is up too and I don't really care. My advice for anyone who has been cheated on and used , is too cut that person who did that out of your life , you owe them nothing . If you have children , then the absolute minimum contact has to be held, Best wishes and I hope you all find the peace you deserve. 2
Misfortune Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 You're right about not owing them nothing. They disrespect you, crush your heart to pieces without care, make sure you look like the bad person at the end of the relationship and most waste your time. I will never understand why there is so much sympathy/empathy and what not for people who treat others like crap. They do w/e they want to you and then talk about how you're not treating them right after the break up. Wtf?
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