Jenny1234 Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 Just curious how to get from no contact to limited contact and then what? I'm in the limited contact phase now...everything is very light and fluffy.... And casual talk... No relationship talk...... How long should this phase last and what's next to getting an ex back? What are others experiences and methods?
AllTooWell Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 There are no methods of getting an ex back. It doesn't matter if you're in NC, LC, or ABC If they don't want to be with you, they don't want to be with you. Nothing you can do will change their mind. There is no 'method'. You are simply prolonging your healing by being in LC and it has no impact on your "chance" of a reconciliation - if anything it may hinder it because they don't get the chance to miss you, you may annoy them, etc. 1
Misfortune Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 What's abc? I would guess that it just means any other "get your ex back" method out there. Basically "blah, blah, blah"; filler. I could be wrong.
Simon Phoenix Posted August 1, 2013 Posted August 1, 2013 There's no time limit on this stuff. It happens when (and if) it happens. And you shouldn't be in LC unless you are fine with them ultimately saying no.
Author Jenny1234 Posted August 2, 2013 Author Posted August 2, 2013 There's no time limit on this stuff. It happens when (and if) it happens. And you shouldn't be in LC unless you are fine with them ultimately saying no. I think I am ok at this point with whatever outcome. It's been 3 months and I'm doing ok. I'm dating and getting back out there. I'm treating this whole situation as another potential guy. I'm not putting too much hope in it but am still hopeful. Either way my life will march on and I will be fine in the end with or without him.
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