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Talking About Sex and Sexual Stuff Too Soon?

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I have been talking to a few guys and this 1 guy immediately starts talking to me right after I tell him I am not having sex until marriage, about sex and phone sex and what have I done and I won't find a guy who is willing to wait until marriage to have sex. And I am scared or religious blah blah blah.

 

In short becuz we talked about these topics right off the bat does that mean all this guy wants is sex?

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Just have sex with him and he'll stop asking.

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He says he respect me and my choice but since I'm a Virgin and he has had sex he is the expert and knows everything.

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He sounds awfully confrontational and aggressive about your choices. Yes all he wants is sex. He sounds like a jerk tbh.

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He sounds awfully confrontational and aggressive about your choices. Yes all he wants is sex. He sounds like a jerk tbh.

 

Yes he does sound like a jerk and he is probably a jerk...

You are doing good by telling him what you want and how you want it... if he is not happy he should just move on and look for someone who match what he is looking for... but his confrontational attitude and pushing for sex are huge red flags. Sex is something that happens between two people not something that someone takes from someone else ;)

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LOL I cut him off.

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LOL I cut him off.

Brava :). This guy is a tool. And not the sharpest in the shed ;).

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I have been talking to a few guys and this 1 guy immediately starts talking to me right after I tell him I am not having sex until marriage, about sex and phone sex and what have I done and I won't find a guy who is willing to wait until marriage to have sex. And I am scared or religious blah blah blah.

 

In short becuz we talked about these topics right off the bat does that mean all this guy wants is sex?

 

Well, if you're not going to do it until marriage, the LEAST you could do is TALK about it, right? LOL

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