Gottabestrong Posted August 2, 2013 Posted August 2, 2013 HI Robert, it sounds to me like it is not just your friends' opinions that make you doubt your relationship, but you also feel unsure of your feelings for your girl without external input. My question to you is whether you have talked to your girl about your doubts? Or even hinted at it? I don't think you are a bad person for doubting your relationship and considering a break-up. People fall out of love, it happens. Doesn't make them bad people. The way they handle their doubts and the breakup could. For example, if you started cheating, lying, stringing her along while you are looking for someone new, etc. My advice is to talk to her and tell her honestly how you feel. Obviously in a gentle way. Tell her you really care for her and she means so much to you, but you are not sure anymore if this relationship is what you want long term. Then see how she reacts. Maybe she has her own doubts, but has been keeping them from you. Maybe she thought you were happy and did not see this coming at all. Give her a chance to react to your feelings. That way, if you decide to break up, it won't be a total shock as she knew you had doubts. I realize that by being honest with her, you risk her leaving you and then you could realize that you made a huge mistake. But if you really care for her, you should give her a chance to do what she feels is best for her. Who knows, maybe an honest conversation with her will clear things up for you and help you make a decision. Good luck!
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